I think it's more probable that I'm
dominant than
dominant. Really.
I have practically none of the Fi-dominant traits, not even the most important - dividing people and situations on the scale of good and evil.
I could be Si-dominant, because comfort is very important to me. I don't have much aesthetic sense, but the way I gather information could very well be Si. I only learn facts that fit into my vision of the world, not all kinds of data like Te does. The problem is that I'm not a moment-person. Whatever I do, I'm always thinking of the future. (if not distant future then at least the near future). "Right now" is almost always irrelevant.
Erkki
When he was 16 years old, he went to the library in the morning, picked out about 1500 pages worth of books, took them home and read them all. Then at early afternoon, he took them back to the library and got another huge pile of books... The next morning he returned them and got new books. He has always been a huge fan of reading. He learned to read when he was 3 y.o. and by the time he was 4 y.o. he could read 200 pages per hour. Now he usually reads science-fiction and fantasy books at the speed of 300p/h. (could go up to 600p/h).
He is an utilitarian, like me, and agrees with Nietzsche in many topics. He believes in personal freedom above all and is convinced that world would be a better place if people used their heads.
He doesn't really plan the future, he likes to go with the flow. It doesn't mean he has no general plan. He wants to be rich but not for the sake of money, rather for the amount of personal freedom that comes with being rich. In stead of spending his time on every-day matters, he would just pay someone to do it for him.
He is rather introverted (as you can see from the body-language in the picture). But when he is working, he gets extroverted, walks around, makes jokes, talks to many people. He knows practically everyone by name, even though there are over 200 people to remember.
He does help with chores/house-work, but only when other people have initiated the process. He is absolutely capable of not noticing whether he has even eaten during the day... Until I start complaining about being hungry and that we NEED to make food.
My ENFj sister adds, "he is very critical and sometimes insensitive when making critical remarks. He gets especially critical and starts dismantling the other person's ideas when he doesn't understand how the other person reached the conclusions (when the other persons system of thinking doesn't adhere to his own).
He has a "slight" superiority complex. He isn't always as calm and collected as he'd like to think. In an argument he uses a very condemning tone of voice when making statements when he's feeling that the opponent is not convinced of his opinion (the kind of "how can you be so stupid???"-voice). And besides, he's somewhat stuck in gender roles, even though he likes to think he isn't. That means he lets the women cook and do the dishes, laundry while he takes out the trash and goes to the store, only when some groceries are needed and we tell him about it."
PS! My sister told me exactly what to write and Erkki is right here encouraging her to express her opinion.
ISFp??? :)
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Originally Posted by implied
I like it here. 
). They respect working hard, working long hours, accomplishing goals, earning high salaries, etc. They see being powerful and well respected as important aspects of career success.
