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    I have reason to believe she is not ISFp (namely, her husband is quite ESFp). By VI, what type do you think she is?











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    ISFP then?
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    no, I said she's NOT ISFp
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    no, I said she's NOT ISFp
    I thought you said she was...at least she seems like that to me
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    You look pretty similar. Having an ESFp husband doesn't mean she's not ISFp. But I could see INFp as a possibility. How would you describe her?

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    She looks rather ISFp to me.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    she told me she doesn't want to meet peter since I'm being immoral because my divorce isn't final yet
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    she told me she doesn't want to meet peter since I'm being immoral because my divorce isn't final yet
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    She very self-marginalizing. She was the "good kid" in my parent's eyes, because she did as she was told and never even tried to argue any of their RIDICULOUSLY strict bullshit. She spent hours doing homework to get straight A's because that was what was expected of her. She hid a lot from my parents though, mostly drug related.

    She lives for her relationships. She does whatever her boyfriend/husband wants, no matter how asinine, selfish, or petty. She's been with a few guys that treated her like shit, but she wouldn't leave until I told her to and helped her do it. >:|

    She was in the military until she received a medical discharge. She also works at Walgreens as an assistant manager, the youngest in her district. At one point in time she was an E4 and a fulltime student and a fulltime manager at Walgreens. That was when she was 19.

    Her hobby is stained glass. She likes to read romance novels.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sycophant
    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    she told me she doesn't want to meet peter since I'm being immoral because my divorce isn't final yet
    !
    that's just cause her husband is friends with Josh and her husband is the type that thinks that if a woman leaves a man, she was wrong and should have tried harder. If a man leaves a woman, the bitch deserved it. So now I talk to her on the phone when she's at work and won't get to see her till he gets over his little fit, which prolly won't be for a while.
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    Some of what you said could be ISFj, though I don't get that from the picture. If she works hard and gets good grades, and puts a considerable emphasis on relationships and morality, that would be consistent with ISFj or some other Sj type maybe.

    If she gets good grades but doesn't really work that hard at it, and gets really interested in whatever she's studying, and is kind of philosophical about things, that could be an Np type, like INFp or something.

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    her husband sounds like someone i would dislike greatly


    the immoral thing is stupid too


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    I think she's ISFj. And I do dislike her husband greatly. Problem is, at least I know she's safe with him.
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    I can't take care of her forever
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    I think she's ISFj. And I do dislike her husband greatly. Problem is, at least I know she's safe with him.
    Whats' his type and what does he do?
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    he's an ESFp. when they started dating he was a drug dealer, one of the most successful "middle men" in the area. since then he's worked a few manual labor jobs, but doesn't last long because he can't get along with his bosses. he spent some time in drug rehab, and as far as I know, he's clean these days. I guess he saw too many of his friends die or something. anyways, he's charismatic but emotionally reactive and unstable. he spews Fi everywhere he goes. he's almost as fucking annoying as ESTps.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    he spews Fi everywhere he goes. .
    What does that mean in practice? Examples?
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    he gets all offended and can't see anyone else's perspective other than his own. he has a terrible temper (not so much anymore) and won't listen to reason. if he's upset there is no talking to him. he KNOWS that he is right.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    he's an ESFp. when they started dating he was a drug dealer, one of the most successful "middle men" in the area. since then he's worked a few manual labor jobs, but doesn't last long because he can't get along with his bosses. he spent some time in drug rehab, and as far as I know, he's clean these days. I guess he saw too many of his friends die or something. anyways, he's charismatic but emotionally reactive and unstable. he spews Fi everywhere he goes. he's almost as fucking annoying as ESTps.
    ESTp's arn't annoying


    I think you'd get along with Patrick for the most part...but if an argument was started you may get frustrated. Same with my dad. More so with my dad actually.

    ANYWAYS, I can't tell what type she is...ISFj? The "submissive-do-what-the-man-says" thing seems ISFj-ish to me.

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    male ESTps aren't so bad I suppose
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    male ESTps aren't so bad I suppose

    The only problem that you would come up agaisnt is them thinking they are right at all times in an argument. But if they like you, they will listen to you and concider your opinion. If they have no particular opinion of you, they will be a bit more harsh. If they very much dislike you, they will pwn you.

    I don't know any female ESTps

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zem
    If they very much dislike you, they will pwn you.
    they will TRY to pwn you, and will prolly think they did regardless of what happens, and then go home and tell their INFp all about it so she can swoon over how manly her manly man is

    (that wasn't directed at you <3)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    Quote Originally Posted by Zem
    If they very much dislike you, they will pwn you.
    they will TRY to pwn you, and will prolly think they did regardless of what happens, and then go home and tell their INFp all about it so she can swoon over how manly her manly man is

    (that wasn't directed at you <3)

    hahahhaha

    THATS HILARIOUS because patrick tells stories like that, and i just give him suspicious looks and ask him lots of questions to try to get the exageration out of him.

    and sometimes i exagerate my "swoon" to make him feel good. ^.^

    ENTp's arn't the only ones that pwn ESTp's can own too. The sport-head-beer-drinker is a stereotype...





    I'm thinking ISFj for your sister you think no?

    I think I remember you saying certain ISFj's rubbed you the wrong way. I mean you love your sister, but it seems like her life choices and actions annoy you.

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    ENTjs: does she look like your dual or conflicting partner?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    I think she's ISFj. And I do dislike her husband greatly. Problem is, at least I know she's safe with him.
    Too bad the way you pictured her sounded just like a pushover of whatever type, not necessarily ISFjs. Read a description of ISFjs, please. You don't know what the fuck you are talkin about.
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    I don't think she's ISFj because she's a pushover. I have read the ISFj description, and aside from the "tidiness" thing, it pretty much fits.
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    ISFjs definately aren't pushovers anyways, because of the creative function.
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    IxFps are A LOT more likely to be pushovers than IxFjs. My main reason for doubting her type is because her husband is SOOOOOO ESFp. They're not duals, but they're not contrary partners either. I see more Fi from her than Fe. If she's not ISFj, INFj is the next most likely, then I guess ISFp. She's fucked up so it's hard to tell.
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    She could be INFp I suppose. However, there's no way that he's not SeFi.
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    Uhm... does she know youre posting this? :/

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