ENTJs would you be okay with a snuggling (NOT MAKING OUT) sort of interaction with an ILI of the opposite sex, when neither of you is looking to date the other person, you've both been through stress lately (not trauma, just lots of daily stress and some loneliness), and you are just both appreciating human contact? It's really similar to just being near a family member or holding a best friend; however, you've both admitted months ago in a friendly setting that you found each other attractive AND the lines haven't really been drawn that WE WILL NEVER be together, as I've made clear with other guy friends so that I can tell them they are pretty without confusing them, etc.
I think I need to have some info on if the LIE could do it before I could even consider doing it with a strict agreement "we stop if we get romantic feelings or something" proviso.
I mean, yeah, it's sweet and all, but how unrealistic is it to think it could be sustained--eventually won't you start getting the biological engine going ? I would think this kind of activity would be ludicrous to even consider with most other types. I'm exploring the possib that an ILI and a LIE could handle it.
P.S. we're both single. LIE only for a month from an ESFP-Fi or an ISFj. I have gone on 1 date with an ESFP-Fi guy and hung out with him a little. I'd like to see him again. But things are moving slowly with him. I've been single for a year. I've only gone on dates with people this past year since my break-up with an ENTP.