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    why do men push their girlfriends away after sex? wtf is that all about? is it something to do with not wanting to confuse emotions and sex for ST men?

    i hate being made to feel like a porn mag.

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    This issue has been discussed yet in the early 90s...

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    Yes, as slater has indicated, there's an entire decade of media devoted to solving just this problem. Please read the book about how men are from mars. Take two and call me in the morning.

    But seriously, I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable and "used," and as my grandfather says "if you see it, it's there"---so perhaps there is something wrong or missing in the relationship. On the other hand, please know that it may not be as wrong or missing as you think. Guys are sort of focused on completing the sex act and once we're finished, well... we're finished. We want to take a break, focus on the physical sensations, not take any more action, and certainly not talk, because talking involves a hell of a lot of thinking, which is the exact opposite of sex for most men. Anyway, we think: we did the action, now it's time for the reward, which is this sustained post-orgasmic feel-good. Not time for more thinking and sharing and speaking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Guys are sort of focused on completing the sex act and once we're finished, well... we're finished.
    That's right. A chemical among many others regulates such things and it is tied to survival of the species. That's why we're tired and need sleep.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Yes, as slater has indicated, there's an entire decade of media devoted to solving just this problem. Please read the book about how men are from mars. Take two and call me in the morning.

    But seriously, I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable and "used," and as my grandfather says "if you see it, it's there"---so perhaps there is something wrong or missing in the relationship. On the other hand, please know that it may not be as wrong or missing as you think. Guys are sort of focused on completing the sex act and once we're finished, well... we're finished. We want to take a break, focus on the physical sensations, not take any more action, and certainly not talk, because talking involves a hell of a lot of thinking, which is the exact opposite of sex for most men. Anyway, we think: we did the action, now it's time for the reward, which is this sustained post-orgasmic feel-good. Not time for more thinking and sharing and speaking.
    yeah that makes sense. post orgasmic feel good, that's what it is i suppose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by humblepie View Post
    why do men push their girlfriends away after sex? wtf is that all about? is it something to do with not wanting to confuse emotions and sex for ST men?

    i hate being made to feel like a porn mag.
    I've never had this problem.

    I really I doubt it it has anything to do with being ST. If a guy pushes you away after sex it means he's probably not all that into you. I'd suggest waiting a while & getting to know a guy for a few weeks before you decide that he's worthy enough to sleep with you. Don't ever make things easy for him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Don't ever make things easy for him.
    Yeah. This. Guys lose interest, not in the sense that they aren't "interested" in you, but that they purely become less invested in a very subconscious, uncontrollable sense, when their sexual drives are gratified too readily.
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    Seriously, anyone who literally pushes you away after sex is a jerk.
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    I don't do that. I have happy cuddles afterward.

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    Yeah me too. Unless she's ugly. Then it's just...eugh.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

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    Mhm I've read articles about that even before having sex, so I was already expecting my man acting this. But for my surprise I found NONE of the guys (SEE,LSI,IEE) I've slept with doing this to me. LSI liked to chat after sex about silly things like why god invented clitoris and play with my nipples. IEE liked to fall asleep while snuggling with me and I found this irritating and was the one to push him away after sex.... Both SEE and LSI would sleep on their backs, so whenever I would need more of contact with them I would just put my head on their chest and if they wouldn't react I would start playing with their hair which goes down the navel. Nah majority of men CAN be lovely. You just need to find a way to their hearts(not only penises) and SHOW what do you want from them. Because some men are just simply blunt when it comes to what a woman needs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kim View Post
    Seriously, anyone who literally pushes you away after sex is a jerk.


    The most I do is to fall asleep right after sex if Im drunk. Even then, I usually take the girl (by force if shes not willing to cuddle) into my arms to sleep cuddled with me. I enjoy a lot feeling like a big male protector to that little flower there and cuddling her makes me feel Im protecting my female after we had sex, which means I care about her). I dont force her to cuddle with me if after my initial forcing SHE pushes me away LOL, but I do think that to cuddle after sex is the best thing... maybe?

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    The most I do is to fall asleep right after sex if Im drunk. Even then, I usually take the girl (by force if shes not willing to cuddle) into my arms to sleep cuddled with me. I enjoy a lot feeling like a big male protector to that little flower there and cuddling her makes me feel Im protecting my female after we had sex, which means I care about her). I dont force her to cuddle with me if after my initial forcing SHE pushes me away LOL, but I do think that to cuddle after sex is the best thing... maybe?
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    That's right. A chemical among many others regulates such things and it is tied to survival of the species. That's why we're tired and need sleep.
    This is Se..."we're tired and need sleep" blunt, surface, no feelings... NO internal sensory feelings or conveying these feelings or sensations in words or words conveying feelings for the experience.

    Se types can cuddle too, but they don't express sensory pleasure when they do so, not like the Si do in the above in how they describe it, anyway....

    They just act, they do, they cuddle...no need to feel the woman in their arms and the feelings they get from her soft warm skin against them and how that makes them feel as they experience all this...to them it's good, it's happening and it's happening.
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    The most I do is to fall asleep right after sex if Im drunk. Even then, I usually take the girl (by force if shes not willing to cuddle) into my arms to sleep cuddled with me. I enjoy a lot feeling like a big male protector to that little flower there and cuddling her makes me feel Im protecting my female after we had sex, which means I care about her). I dont force her to cuddle with me if after my initial forcing SHE pushes me away LOL, but I do think that to cuddle after sex is the best thing... maybe?
    It could be too. I love feeling protected. Not much the feeling of physical closeness or sensations.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sarinana View Post
    It could be too. I love feeling protected. Not much the feeling of physical closeness or sensations.
    YOU LOVE FEELING????? *(again, you're SEI)*

    No it's not sari, Se is just experiencing it not deriving pleasure from it...anyway...yeah both SLE and LSE are "protective" both from two separate sensory ways. One to just be protective (more of an act then out of some internal magnanemous feeling derived from the act), the other to feel like they are the protectors (LSE-magnanitmity).

    Si types remember the physical feelings of the sensations derived for a very long time, this is how they are able to recall the feelings they had with certain lovers over and over; LSE remember their lovers for a very long time because these sensations get imprinted inside them, inside their head. Se need to experience again, because they are realists, moment, here and now and don't have much use of either Ne or Si because Ne/Si are together, they live within each other.

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    Yes, as slater has indicated, there's an entire decade of media devoted to solving just this problem. Please read the book about how men are from mars. Take two and call me in the morning.

    But seriously, I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable and "used," and as my grandfather says "if you see it, it's there"---so perhaps there is something wrong or missing in the relationship. On the other hand, please know that it may not be as wrong or missing as you think. Guys are sort of focused on completing the sex act and once we're finished, well... we're finished. We want to take a break, focus on the physical sensations, not take any more action, and certainly not talk, because talking involves a hell of a lot of thinking, which is the exact opposite of sex for most men. Anyway, we think: we did the action, now it's time for the reward, which is this sustained post-orgasmic feel-good. Not time for more thinking and sharing and speaking.
    This is Se too...no emphasis on feelings derived from just what happened just it happened. It's not a "guy" thing, it's an Se/Si thing....it just so happens that the people who are complaining are probably not sleeping with the "right" kind of thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    Si -MAKES ME FEEL WONDERFUL

    This is Se..."we're tired and need sleep" blunt, surface, no feelings... NO internal sensory feelings or conveying these feelings or sensations in words or words conveying feelings for the experience.

    Se types can cuddle too, but they don't express sensory pleasure when they do so, not like the Si do in the above in how they describe it, anyway....

    They just act, they do, they cuddle...no need to feel the woman in their arms and the feelings they get from her soft warm skin against them and how that makes them feel as they experience all this...to them it's good, it's happening and it's happening.
    This is BS. Never heard Se ego say that to me! and how can you speak about this if you never had sex with one?
    Se egos are very giving and attentive to woman's physical state. They are the ones who have duals that don't even know how they feel and how it affects their mood in the end! Men with weak and unvalued Se is the different case, they are the ones you can expect " I am tired and need to sleep".
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    Quote Originally Posted by sarinana View Post
    This is BS. Never heard Se ego say that to me! and how can you speak about this if you never had sex with one?
    Se egos are very giving and attentive to woman's physical state. They are the ones who have duals that don't even know how they feel and how it affects their mood in the end! Men with weak and unvalued Se is the different case, they are the ones you can expect " I am tired and need to sleep".
    I have. He was ESTp. Very blunt, no feelings, no discussion about feelings, no "um um ummmmm feelings"; cuddeling, but just the act of, no discussion about those feelings. Just experiencing me as an object of sex. Very cold to me, but lucky for me, he was a good and understanding friend and let me go without pursuing me aggressively.

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    What am I infantile then? I only have father complex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    This is Se..."we're tired and need sleep" blunt, surface, no feelings...
    Hehe. Alright, dumbo. Let's get some things straight. I won't ever respond to any of your, I don't even know how to call it, concepts(?) and you do the same for me. Thanks.

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    Maritsa,
    Feelings can be both emotional/psychological and physical.
    To me feeling protected aka feeling SAFE is a psychological feeling. It has nothing to do with Si. I prefer masculine guys instead of skinny emo guys for the same reason.
    Victim men make me feel like I have to be a man and I hate that, yet we have very great psychological compatibility with them so I have many victim friends. Infantile men... they are too childish, expect too much of soft physical affection from me and I have no idea how to give them that. I don't even feel good about initiating physical contact with people, like hugging my friends etc. I always wait for someone to do that first. How can I be SEI, Maritsa???
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    Quote Originally Posted by sarinana View Post
    It could be too. I love feeling protected.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    This is Se..."we're tired and need sleep" blunt, surface, no feelings... NO internal sensory feelings or conveying these feelings or sensations in words or words conveying feelings for the experience.

    Se types can cuddle too, but they don't express sensory pleasure when they do so, not like the Si do in the above in how they describe it, anyway....

    They just act, they do, they cuddle...no need to feel the woman in their arms and the feelings they get from her soft warm skin against them and how that makes them feel as they experience all this...to them it's good, it's happening and it's happening.
    Um, sorry, this is just stupid and incorrect.
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    nahh, beta ST's never do that gay shit. Honestly, they'll usually just punch you in the face & ask for a sandwich.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    This is Se..."we're tired and need sleep" blunt, surface, no feelings... NO internal sensory feelings or conveying these feelings or sensations in words or words conveying feelings for the experience.

    Se types can cuddle too, but they don't express sensory pleasure when they do so, not like the Si do in the above in how they describe it, anyway....

    They just act, they do, they cuddle...no need to feel the woman in their arms and the feelings they get from her soft warm skin against them and how that makes them feel as they experience all this...to them it's good, it's happening and it's happening.
    I think they like to do it rough for a while, but probably expect closeness before and after.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    YOU LOVE FEELING????? *(again, you're SEI)*
    Sarinana is not SEI. In case you were unaware, there are seven other feeler types besides SEI.

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    I can't remember the last time I cuddled after sex. I feel used. Oh well. But sometimes it's just...ugh...get away from me.

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    Sarinana is not SEI. In case you were unaware, there are seven other feeler types besides SEI.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jxrtes View Post
    I think they like to do it rough for a while, but probably expect closeness before and after.
    yeah. I can't speak for Delta ST's, but I really don't think a lot of you people realize how... uh, sensual Beta ST's are. They're always so physical with everything they do. SLE's in particular like to touch on a constant basis, even if it's not in a sexual manner. I see it as their way of expressing affection. They also seem to crave receiving the same kind of affection back.

    btw I think this could have a little to do with both type & personal prefrence.
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    I actually prefer to just lay my head against the girl and go to sleep. I don't like the really needy, wimpering dog kind of cuddling. Unless she's into it, cuz then it's not my pride being compromised.
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    for fuck sake. i was happy with the thought of him wanting to bask in the blissed outness of it all but now i have to go into analyzing it and wondering if he's just a jerk or is he odd with me over something?

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    It's basically one of two things and I know this because I have the mind of a man and I know why I don't cuddle after sex: they just used you and don't care or they have more important things to do. TRUTH.

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    I rather cuddle before sex. After sex I'm tired and want to sleep or play with my computer.

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    If I were you DA, I would snap her neck before it's too late.
    I'm not in the habit of attacking females. I do think she needs slapped, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    It's basically one of two things and I know this because I have the mind of a man and I know why I don't cuddle after sex: they just used you and don't care or they have more important things to do. TRUTH.
    or they are just drunk and seriously feeling like passing out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I'm not in the habit of attacking females. I do think she needs slapped, though.
    for what?
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