If you're in the situation where you have two types which both sound kind of true, you should start to compare them directly. Look at the quadras, which one seems more like your 'group' of people? You can also take a look at the other small groups like clubs or Temperaments. Then, you can compare all of the Reinin dichotomies (you can find them here:
Link) or even better: if you don't know they yet in detail, just read the descriptions and then answer them all regardless of types and then compare it with the existing combinations. I don't know if you are already familiar with the socionics terms, but you can also take a look at the 'hidden agenda' (the 6th function) and the 'point of least resistance' (aka polr, the 4th function). I think this will give you more clues what your actual type is.
PS: If I may say so, you're really pretty. Otherwise I can't say much about how you VI.