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    sle girls tend to be really imposing ..

    she'll probably dramaticise her love for you .. tell her that she loves you more than something or other .. kind of be a bit silly... and try and help you with shit ..

    and then when you don't respond they'll kind of just leave ..

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    when she lets you 'take' her. I'm not talking about sexual things, per se.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    when she lets you 'take' her. I'm not talking about sexual things, per se.
    hmmm

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    why do you care so much if she likes you anyway?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    sle girls tend to be really imposing ..

    she'll probably dramaticise her love for you .. tell her that she loves you more than something or other .. kind of be a bit silly... and try and help you with shit ..

    and then when you don't respond they'll kind of just leave ..
    Hey, you mean like this?

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    ESTp uncovered

    A female ESTp comes home...

    - Hey, darling, I'm home!
    - Cool!
    - Don't you want to come and give me a kiss?
    - Yeah, in a minute!
    - Is something wrong?
    - No, nothing's wrong!
    - Are you not happy to see me?
    - Of course I am happy to see you!
    - So why don't you want to come then?
    - I do, let me just finish something first!
    - Is it more important to you than me?
    - Oh, please, don't start!
    - You don't love me, I know!
    - Of course I do, don't be silly!
    - If you loved me, you wouldn't do this to me!
    - Do what?
    - This!
    - Just because I can't drop everything right this second, I don't love you?
    - Not this!
    - Then what?
    - You don't want me anymore!
    - What? Where does this come from?
    - You should know better!
    - Give me at least a hint!
    - See? Now you are mad at me too! You hate me!
    - I am not mad at you and I don't hate you! Now stop it!
    - And you don't love me either!
    - I love you, I love you, I love you! How many more times I have to say this?
    - You don't mean it!
    - I love you and I mean it! Now stop this nonsense, I have had enough of it!
    - Maybe you have had enough of me too?
    - Maybe...

    Female ESTp breaks down in tears...
    (D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)

    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelMaybe View Post
    Well?!
    She'll tell you by rubbing her vagina on your dog so that when you pet your dog and smell your hand you will smell her vagina and wonder what the smell is and realize it's her vagina and that she must have rubbed it on your dog because she likes you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    when she lets you 'take' her. I'm not talking about sexual things, per se.
    explain?


    I don't think SLE females are that hard to read, assuming you're IEI. as long as you seem interested, they tend to take the initiative in establishing a position.

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    I usually just flat out assume if they're giving me the time of day it means they like me.
    INTp

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    Quote Originally Posted by 07490 View Post
    Hey, you mean like this?
    Actually I've seen these jokes before. EIEs tend to act very similar. So it's a bad example.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sarinana View Post
    Actually I've seen these jokes before. EIEs tend to act very similar. So it's a bad example.
    I guess yea, but I get the sense EIE does it more deliberately, whenever they feel betrayed in relationship or feel vindictive, for ESTp female, they are truly hurt because of their hidden agenda, and Fi uncertainty.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 07490 View Post
    I guess yea, but I get the sense EIE does it more deliberately, whenever they feel betrayed in relationship or feel vindictive, for ESTp female, they are truly hurt because of their hidden agenda, and Fi uncertainty.
    yeah, EIEs tend to just test boundaries more, to find some sense of security. with SLEs, the issue is your actual disposition towards them (which, it should be noted, is useful bait); so, the probing and such revolves more around how they're coming across, what your opinion of x and y "hypothetical behaviors/attitudes" is, etc.
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    I tend to find that they find it hard to play mind games and such, i mean emotional games, so its all in how she responds to you. If you "attack" her she responds well, then you know she likes you, but if you attack and blows you off youll know shes a bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Typhon View Post
    I tend to find that they find it hard to play mind games and such, i mean emotional games, so its all in how she responds to you. If you "attack" her she responds well, then you know she likes you, but if you attack and blows you off youll know shes a bitch.
    while they don't seem the most adept at those 'games', they're definitely aware of them. also, ignoring an attack is a strong indicator of disinterest. but this is mainly because they don't expect attacks from people (i.e. IEIs), and so when one occurs, its impact (or lack thereof) has more meaning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelMaybe View Post
    Well?!
    Easy. If she punches you in the face and slaps you around, she's in love.

    My bud's ex-girlfriend is SLE.
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    Just one example: in MBTI, Se (extraverted sensing) is associated with life pleasures, excitement etc. By contrast, the socionic function (extraverted sensing) is first and foremost associated with control and expansion of personal space (which sometimes can manifest in excessive aagression, but often also manifests in a capability of managing lots of people and things).

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelMaybe View Post
    Well?!
    lmao

    I can't speak for others, but as for myself, you never have to wonder if I'm interested. If I am, you'll know it.

    I'll try to make plans with you, communicate interest through physical proximity, and try to initiate physical stuff like holding hands or kissing. I don't mind when people initiate hugs (provided it's someone I'm okay with hugging), but it's best to just leave initiating other physical stuff to me for the most part. But when I do, warm affection is important to let me know that my advances are welcomed, not just tolerated. Reciprocation is a tricky thing to read without that warmth.

    Basically, just be your cute self and make me do all the work, lol. A certain type of flirtatiousness, however, is okay (and even enticing) as long as I don't perceive the person as someone who's going to try to actually make a move on me. I don't like being put on the spot.
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    ESTp uncovered

    A female ESTp comes home...

    - Hey, darling, I'm home!
    - Cool!
    - Don't you want to come and give me a kiss?
    - Yeah, in a minute!
    - Is something wrong?
    - No, nothing's wrong!
    - Are you not happy to see me?
    - Of course I am happy to see you!
    - So why don't you want to come then?
    - I do, let me just finish something first!
    - Is it more important to you than me?
    - Oh, please, don't start!
    - You don't love me, I know!
    - Of course I do, don't be silly!
    - If you loved me, you wouldn't do this to me!
    - Do what?
    - This!
    - Just because I can't drop everything right this second, I don't love you?
    - Not this!
    - Then what?
    - You don't want me anymore!
    - What? Where does this come from?
    - You should know better!
    - Give me at least a hint!
    - See? Now you are mad at me too! You hate me!
    - I am not mad at you and I don't hate you! Now stop it!
    - And you don't love me either!
    - I love you, I love you, I love you! How many more times I have to say this?
    - You don't mean it!
    - I love you and I mean it! Now stop this nonsense, I have had enough of it!
    - Maybe you have had enough of me too?
    - Maybe...

    Female ESTp breaks down in tears...
    Um. No. That's just psycho. And annoying. I'm more likely to just tackle the person. (If they look busy, just a quick kiss.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    and then when you don't respond they'll kind of just leave ..
    Yeah, if there's not abundantly apparent reciprocation/appreciation I'll lose interest pretty quickly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelMaybe View Post
    Well?!
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    I have a friend who speaks only Spanish. He met a Norwegian girl that only spoke Norwegian and English. They were a couple for a few months. He came one day and the guys asked him: "How can you communicate with your girlfriend?" He said: "Well, when I am watching TV at home and she enters the room naked and starts to suck my cock I realize she wants to make love".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleksei View Post
    Easy. If she punches you in the face and slaps you around, she's in love.

    My bud's ex-girlfriend is SLE.
    That's psycho, too. I tell IEI's I know not to fucking let anyone treat them that way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 07490 View Post
    ESTp uncovered

    A female ESTp comes home...

    - Hey, darling, I'm home!
    - Cool!
    - Don't you want to come and give me a kiss?
    - Yeah, in a minute!
    - Is something wrong?
    - No, nothing's wrong!
    - Are you not happy to see me?
    - Of course I am happy to see you!
    - So why don't you want to come then?
    - I do, let me just finish something first!
    - Is it more important to you than me?
    - Oh, please, don't start!
    - You don't love me, I know!
    - Of course I do, don't be silly!
    - If you loved me, you wouldn't do this to me!
    - Do what?
    - This!
    - Just because I can't drop everything right this second, I don't love you?
    - Not this!
    - Then what?
    - You don't want me anymore!
    - What? Where does this come from?
    - You should know better!
    - Give me at least a hint!
    - See? Now you are mad at me too! You hate me!
    - I am not mad at you and I don't hate you! Now stop it!
    - And you don't love me either!
    - I love you, I love you, I love you! How many more times I have to say this?
    - You don't mean it!
    - I love you and I mean it! Now stop this nonsense, I have had enough of it!
    - Maybe you have had enough of me too?
    - Maybe...

    Female ESTp breaks down in tears...
    It's official. My ex-girlfriend and I have a stalker who works for Socionics.com. That's just about verbatim the conversation we used to have... every single goddamn day. Relationships with conflictors are so much fun. :facepalm:

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1981slater View Post
    I have a friend who speaks only Spanish. He met a Norwegian girl that only spoke Norwegian and English. They were a couple for a few months. He came one day and the guys asked him: "How can you communicate with your girlfriend?" He said: "Well, when I am watching TV at home and she enters the room naked and starts to suck my cock I realize she wants to make love".

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