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    Default What is this type of relationship?

    Anyone have any ideas...

    It's not a bad one. But, unlike most relationships I have; I talk fast, I reveal more about myself than I usually would, and I feel I am constantly trying to proove myself as 'human' and 'normal', rather than superior (as I worry I am percieved this way). Then I slip up, and make things worse. Nothing wrong with this relationship at all - I like this relationship (I like there blatent honesty for example). Who is this lol?
    ENTp... love it

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    sounds like you're nervous. like you're maybe attracted to said person and too worried about how you're coming across?

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    sounds like you're nervous. like you're maybe attracted to said person and too worried about how you're coming across?
    Perhaps - but these people aren't threatening at all really, and they all see similar. They're not people that would make me nervous; I just want them to feel comfortable around me... hmm.
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    ILIs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by EllaC View Post
    Anyone have any ideas...

    It's not a bad one. But, unlike most relationships I have; I talk fast, I reveal more about myself than I usually would, and I feel I am constantly trying to proove myself as 'human' and 'normal', rather than superior (as I worry I am percieved this way). Then I slip up, and make things worse. Nothing wrong with this relationship at all - I like this relationship (I like there blatent honesty for example). Who is this lol?
    ENTp? You would usually be in a relationship with LSE to do this.
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    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    conflict. the other person is having a profound effect on you, forcing you to act differently than you normally do.

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    those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often

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    Quote Originally Posted by EllaC View Post
    Anyone have any ideas...

    It's not a bad one. But, unlike most relationships I have; I talk fast, I reveal more about myself than I usually would, and I feel I am constantly trying to proove myself as 'human' and 'normal', rather than superior (as I worry I am percieved this way). Then I slip up, and make things worse. Nothing wrong with this relationship at all - I like this relationship (I like there blatent honesty for example). Who is this lol?
    Too little info to make a reasonable judgement.

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