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    Hello Nanashi....

    My friend is a phd physicist who is ESFp and I'f you would like, I would be happy to introduce you to him...
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    Oh, you're a girl? Two duals to choose from (Eric doesn't count)...I'm sure a lot of ILIs would be envious. Iain sounds the best to me.

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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Thanks for the replies. They are helpful. Sorry it was a book to read. I've got to run to class.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nanashi View Post
    Do you think you're more into Iain because he didn't violate by going back to his 3yr relationship? Since you and I both value , I thought it might be the reason. Or are you being practical and selecting the closer guy?


    Iain's 28. I'm 25. Eric's a baby (20-23). And Sam's 23.
    I'm being practical. Sam doesn't seem very secure; you'd have to put forth some effort to get him. I wasn't sure about the role Barbie played in it...long paragraphs are annoying to read. She seems like a jerk, though.

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    Nanashi, you should turn your life into a romance novel or something!

    I don't have any advice though. Uh, go with your heart???

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    Quote Originally Posted by nanashi View Post
    Do you think you're more into Iain because he didn't violate by going back to his 3yr relationship? Since you and I both value , I thought it might be the reason. Or are you being practical and selecting the closer guy?
    Yes, that would make sense.
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    Hello, Maritsa.

    O man, that's incredibly sweet of you and thoughtful, maritsa. i do, however, feel a little concerned about meeting anyone in person off the internet....my internet life is where I spill a lot of guts and talk about my relationships anonymously, due to this and my concern for safety, and my tentativeness about meeting anyone so much further along with his life than I am now...not to mention the fact that he might be located far from me, I will gratefully decline for now.

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