the type that is stubbornly opinionated and not willing to imagine the alternative
Right now I don't have conflict with anybody on this forum. In the past there have been some people who have rubbed me the wrong way. Lately the forum seems to have mellowed out- the worst offenders are either gone or not posting.
LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP
I get rough around idiots and dregs of society. What can I say?
irl, I am not a fan of touchy feely persons. While tenderness is a strength unto itself, pure strength and resolve ought to be respected.
The main types I have conflicts on forums are "moderator type". Only because they have a possibility to force me create other accounts.
I don't see how someone on forums used for fun may to make a real conflict. Sometimes people call each other by different "bad" words, but no one gets real harm.
How many accounts have you had???
I agree with this for the most part. I have had fun with some conflict here and no one has really hurt my feelings on this forum but I think there might be people who are hurt by some things others say about them or to them. Especially when certain members use past posts or private messages (vulnerable ones) to try and humiliate people publicly.
In those cases I have taken the "victims" side purely out of irritation at the one using personal information to demean someone. Without exposing some level of vulnerability how are people going to see how different types process and use their strongest/weakest functions? It is not really an open atmosphere of total acceptance around here but neither are most of the spiritual, enneragram, and new age type groups I have explored over the years. At least this site is not marketed as a safe space to deal with your issues like some of those were but when you did not live up to their ideals you were treated like a leper.
I know I have not been an angel here but sometimes when I poke people I do feel a bit of remorse (but not always) since I did it as a reaction and didn't think about the effect it might have had in the moment.
Still not your dual though. <-- that was not directed at you ftr. I don't think you have any doubt about this.
Last edited by Aylen; 09-18-2015 at 07:15 PM.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
On this forum? Everybody is pretty nice and civil
There isn't very many assholes on this forum compared to others because most of them have been darwined out. The nature of socionics is also more likely to attract more intelligent, self-aware people.
Heh, I will poke, then send you an inspirational song and possibly sprinkle you with faerydust. I don't mean to hurt someone even though I do tend to notice people's vulnerable spots and could if I were malevolent but I am benevolent. IRL, I do tease my friends and family a lot but they love it.
When I am upset I don't take pokes. I might take swings. Metaphorically of course.
An old woman told me that I was a little imp because I was so mischievous. Sometimes she would look at me and ask, "what are you smiling about?" and I would not even realize I had been smiling.
Hahah I went on a tangent. I had more weird dreams last night and after weird dreams I am all over the place.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung