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    what types do you have the most conflict with on this forum?

    I'm finding that I'm the most annoyed and have the most conflict (internal, even if I don't express it) with ISTps, moreso than ESTjs.

    *sigh* And I never feel conflict with ENTjs.

    This is no reason, in itself, to revisit my type. But it makes me wonder what other people's experiences are with conflict, on the forum.
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    For me, I think it's the people, not the types.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brian View Post
    For me, I think it's the people, not the types.
    could be, yeah.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Oh you know you love us SLI's!

    For me still has to be the attention-whoring of ENFj's. (That's easily and readily identifiable)
    not you! I like you, LV. Always have.
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    I feel conflict with nobody here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    what types do you have the most conflict with on this forum?

    I'm finding that I'm the most annoyed and have the most conflict (internal, even if I don't express it) with ISTps, moreso than ESTjs.

    *sigh* And I never feel conflict with ENTjs.

    This is no reason, in itself, to revisit my type. But it makes me wonder what other people's experiences are with conflict, on the forum.
    I've had a conflict or two with ESTp's and ESFp's; that's it.

    I had a really big one with Ryu, until he gave up, started to grumble at me, and accept my information the way I wanted it accepted, but that's just how our dual pair works. When I want to do something and I feel my dual is trying to control, I try to communicate that I want to do what I want to, but they don't listen because they want to control my energy. It's a give and take, he let go of saying that I posted too much in compromise for me to let him control my energy-flow and directing me to the specific threads where he saw the most advantage.
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    [QUOTE=redbaron;668191]what types do you have the most conflict with on this forum?

    I'm finding that I'm the most annoyed and have the most conflict (internal, even if I don't express it) with ISTps, moreso than ESTjs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    what types do you have the most conflict with on this forum?

    I'm finding that I'm the most annoyed and have the most conflict (internal, even if I don't express it) with ISTps, moreso than ESTjs.

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    Not you! LOL Okay so erase what I said about ISTps. I think Brian was right.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Aw shucks.

    I actually really do like almost all the IEI's on the forum... but don't tell anybody.
    Must have been something you said.
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    Yeah, you really can't blame a type. Besides, you know what they say about assholes? Everyone has one.
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    lol
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    I conflict with SLEs. In real life, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    *sigh* And I never feel conflict with ENTjs.
    Supervision isn't really that bad of an intertype relationship. I usually get along fine with ENTps and ESFps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    Supervision isn't really that bad of an intertype relationship. I usually get along fine with ENTps and ESFps.
    yeah it's not that bad unless it's marriage or something.
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    good question. I experience probably the most frustration with delta NFs, and have the worst time in arguments with gamma NTs. Ironically, I think I get on well with all the delta STs. Rarely do alphas annoy me.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    Supervision isn't really that bad of an intertype relationship. I usually get along fine with ENTps and ESFps.
    That's because you're mistyped and ESFp's (actually, both become benefit relations) would be your benefit relations, which are very warm...

    I should say, deceptively warm.

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    I always associated fake niceness with .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I always associated fake niceness with .
    And Fe-valuers associate it with Fi. lol
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    I have conflicts very badly with SLEs and IEIs in real life, but here it´s been calm with them.

    I´ve only had a few non-important discussions which were even somewhat funny with Brian (don´t remember his type though) and a conflict started by WorkaholicsAnon with me some months ago (I hope she left it on the past).

    In real life sometimes I do have trouble with ESFPs, though, although I have a very good ESFP friend, one whom I count as one of my three best friends, and he´s there for me like I am for him, it´s just pure loyalty, even though he does things which I have to just ignore or forgive sometimes. I think ESFPs can be very good people but very very childish if they don´t check this because they have a very big and vain ego. They seem to have an immense need of self-affirmation especially regarding sexual-affective pursuits.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ananke View Post
    I have conflicted with a LIE, an IEE and an ESE.
    I find three or four people here annoyingly annoying. Betas and alphas
    Some of the Delta NFs are annoying, too. For being so "nice". It makes me feel they are fake, but I guess they are not.
    No we are not fake or faking it. Although we do seem that way to others, especially those who read into intentions of others like SLE and IEI types. There's so much meanness that genuine niceness is just not trusted any more.

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    Was this thread inspired by me? I feel so honored.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aixelsyd View Post
    Indeed. Fake niceness should be just labeled under Fail Ethics or something.
    Or not even fail ethics. Just not-my-type. Fake niceness was one of the first things that I filed under the category of "irreconcilable type differences." Just a difference in what is considered real and what is considered fake. What an LSE would find super annoying "fakeness," an SLE might find super likeable "realness" even if it were the exact same action.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    what types do you have the most conflict with on this forum?
    None probably. There are people who annoy me but their behaviour is annoying not due to their type but due to crazyness.
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    Joy, whatever type she is.
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    Some of the Beta rationals (my typings, not necessary theirs), due to what I perceive as hotheadedness and delusional mindsets

    Se dominants don't possess much of a threat to me via the internet as they do in person, so I haven't experienced any qualms with the ones here (in fact I like all the SLE's here thus far)
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    I did have conflict with one member here and temporarily put him on ignore but have since taken him off my ignore list.

    I think its more about the person and not their type.

    Some of the beta's on here rub me the wrong way because they post things that are offensive. I think its a case of attention seeking and emotional expression gone too far. Not all the betas are like that of course and some of the nicest people on this forum are betas.
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    I know they aren't around often but SEEs. SEEs are probably the type that bugs me the most (IRL Too), it's like some one took everything bad about EIIs and SLEs and mashed it all together then let out some maniacal evil villain laugh at the thought of what they just unleashed upon the world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Airborne View Post
    In real life sometimes I do have trouble with ESFPs, though, although I have a very good ESFP friend, one whom I count as one of my three best friends, and he´s there for me like I am for him, it´s just pure loyalty, even though he does things which I have to just ignore or forgive sometimes. I think ESFPs can be very good people but very very childish if they don´t check this because they have a very big and vain ego. They seem to have an immense need of self-affirmation especially regarding sexual-affective pursuits.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ananke View Post
    I know, but it takes a conscious effort to believe it.


    well, not all Delta NFs are genuine. I have met those who use their "niceness" to make others, like me, look bad. It is manipulative, not nice. But they do it with a friendly smile, yes, making it seem even more fake to me.
    I think they try to force me into following their rules around them, even if I don't agree with or even understand the rules? Not sure? It is very confusing, and makes it seem as if they want to be treated as more important than others. I guess "nice" is relative.

    That being said, I know a lot of IEEs from school, and we have fun, when we meet, so it's not as if I constantly fight Deltas. Most of them are nice for real.

    It may be because you really do look bad next to their niceness, and/or they thought you wronged them or someone else in some way. Just guessing though, from what i've experienced with betas.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ananke View Post
    I know, but it takes a conscious effort to believe it.


    well, not all Delta NFs are genuine. I have met those who use their "niceness" to make others, like me, look bad. It is manipulative, not nice. But they do it with a friendly smile, yes, making it seem even more fake to me.

    I think they try to force me into following their rules around them, even if I don't agree with or even understand the rules? Not sure? It is very confusing, and makes it seem as if they want to be treated as more important than others. I guess "nice" is relative.

    That being said, I know a lot of IEEs from school, and we have fun, when we meet, so it's not as if I constantly fight Deltas. Most of them are nice for real.
    fuck "nice" go for real honest true people.

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    Oh yeah, now I remember! Bullets and Doves. He's the only member on here who's on permanent ignore. When I blocked him the only words out of his fingers were "i'm gay" and "PAY ATTENTION TO ME".
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    It may be because you really do look bad next to their niceness, and/or they thought you wronged them or someone else in some way. Just guessing though, from what i've experienced with betas.
    its still manipulative, though.
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    its still manipulative, though.
    you really think that is going to go somewhere?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    you really think that is going to go somewhere?
    Its probably not going anywhere, but regardless, I dislike justifications like that taking away from the main concern of manipulation - the end doesn't justify the means to me.
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    Quote Originally Posted by JWC3 View Post
    I know they aren't around often but SEEs. SEEs are probably the type that bugs me the most (IRL Too), it's like some one took everything bad about EIIs and SLEs and mashed it all together then let out some maniacal evil villain laugh at the thought of what they just unleashed upon the world.
    That's hilarious. You make them sound appealing now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aixelsyd View Post
    Indeed. Fake niceness should be just labeled under Fail Ethics or something.
    Fake niceness should be labeled under dumb ass behavior. It has nothign to do with ethics.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    what types do you have the most conflict with on this forum?

    I'm finding that I'm the most annoyed and have the most conflict (internal, even if I don't express it) with ISTps, moreso than ESTjs.

    *sigh* And I never feel conflict with ENTjs.

    This is no reason, in itself, to revisit my type. But it makes me wonder what other people's experiences are with conflict, on the forum.
    THERE ARE SLIS ON THIS FORUM ORLY?

    As far as I recall the only SLI on this forum was force my hand.

    I have a tendency to conflict with idiots.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    I have a tendency to conflict with idiots.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Oh good lord, let's not start with that again.
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    Lol, Ez, what type do you think Loki is?

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