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    Ugh. Freaking everything. SLEs suck, especially since I currently have no interest in becoming a better person.

    Lack of Fi is annoying b/c when I don't have a clever Fe way of convincing them to do stuff, I'm pretty much just stuck, because they're not going to figure it out and do it on their own. Also, they can be kind of bossy. Like, seriously, dude? When did I become your assistant. Never? Oh, when, never? Yes, that's right, never? I think that problem is solved with a female dual, though, because I'll pretty much be her slave for sex. Or even the possibility of future sex. (Not really. I ain't crazy.)
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    how they think everybody likes them. pfffft. No, sorry, everybody likes ME, not you.
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    The insane drama.

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    They're sluts.
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    you know, they're weird.

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    I really can't think of anything to hate. Maybe that they don't seem to make enough time for one on one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    how they think everybody likes them. pfffft. No, sorry, everybody likes ME, not you.
    lol.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    lol.
    You should be a girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    You should be a girl.
    If I were, I'd be prettier and more popular than you.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    They are manipulative at times, and what's worse is that sometimes people don't realise it (including the EIE who is doing it) and think the world of them.

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    Well they make me feel like I'm constantly holding a butterfly. One wrong move and suddenly the damn thing will never fly again.
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    How their attention to me is so sporadic and based on whim.
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    They're too inclusivistic and incapable of being bitches to stupid people.

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    They keep moving away and they don't come in diverse enough enneagram options.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    They keep moving away and they don't come in diverse enough enneagram options.
    okay Abbie, what's your ideal enneagram pairing?

    I used to think mine was maybe 8w9 but now I'm thinking 7w8. (or 8w7 would work, lol)
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    okay Abbie, what's your ideal enneagram pairing?

    I used to think mine was maybe 8w9 but now I'm thinking 7w8. (or 8w7 would work, lol)
    I'm still trying to decide...that's why I want a bunch of EIIs to line up with diverse E-types. Far as I can discern at this point, I think I want a 6-4-1.

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I'm still trying to decide...that's why I want a bunch of EIIs to line up with diverse E-types. Far as I can discern at this point, I think I want a 6-4-1.
    lol. I want an 8-7-3 sx/sp, or so/sx.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    lol. I want an 8-7-3 sx/sp, or so/sx.
    Oh yeah, I forgot about the stacking. I want sp/sx for that.

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Why do you want a 4 in the triad or tritype or whatever? I'd imagine that LSEs would be annoyed by most four-ish qualities.

    Also, speaking of triads, my idealized dual's enneagram chord is Imaj7, no 5. Your dual's is IV. Mine is III7, no third.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    lol. I want an 8-7-3 sx/sp, or so/sx.
    Yeah, 8-7-3 would be great. so/sx perfect!!

    I don't know much about the tri-type stuff though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Why do you want a 4 in the triad or tritype or whatever? I'd imagine that LSEs would be annoyed by most four-ish qualities.
    I'm annoyed by some four-ish qualities, but many are endearing.

    What LSE E-type are you most familiar with?

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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    What LSE E-type are you most familiar with?
    No idea. I don't know many LSEs. LSE 8s would probably annoy me the most though.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    No idea. I don't know many LSEs. LSE 8s would probably annoy me the most though.
    me either. I know one male and one female. I think they might both be E-1s. Of the highly annoying variety (no offense intended).

    And may I say, I've never been annoyed with you, Abbie. I quite like you!
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    lol. I want an 8-7-3 sx/sp, or so/sx.
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    Yeah, 8-7-3 would be great. so/sx perfect!!



    why an SLE 8 over a 7?
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    Because 8s are like 4s, just flipped inside out. And I'm 7ish enough for the both of us. I don't really need a push to go explore and do exciting things outside. I need a push to get off my ass and work towards whatever the goal is.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Because 8s are like 4s, just flipped inside out. And I'm 7ish enough for the both of us. I don't really need a push to go explore and do exciting things outside. I need a push to get off my ass and work towards whatever the goal is.
    well we may differ here. I DO need the push to explore. I think a 7w8 would be fab.
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    I honestly can't say I hate anything about SLE's. I mean, it's a type, not an individual person.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JWC3 View Post
    Well they make me feel like I'm constantly holding a butterfly. One wrong move and suddenly the damn thing will never fly again.
    do IEI's really seem that easy to break?

    a SLE once admitted to me that she felt an overwhelming impulse to protect me, because I seemed so slight, delicate, and fragile to her. I didn't take offence to it, but it really did confuse me. I'm actually a very strong and resilient person.
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    ISFps can be pretty guarded individuals (unless you impress them), same with ESFjs (unless you let them push you around)...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    do IEI's really seem that easy to break?

    a SLE once admitted to me that she felt an overwhelming impulse to protect me, because I seemed so slight, delicate, and fragile to her. I didn't take offence to it, but it really did confuse me. I'm actually a very strong and resilient person.
    were you close to her though? I think IEIs seem fragile at first but at a closer distance, our inner strength becomes apparent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    were you close to her though? I think IEIs seem fragile at first but at a closer distance, our inner strength becomes apparent.
    At the time we weren't. We had known each other for a few months, but it was our first real one-on-one conversation. Apparently we idolized one another for very different reasons, it was strange. She was quite clearly strong on the outside, a fierceness that would honestly intimidate most; yet under many of those eternal layers I could quite clearly see her vulnerabilities, which were blatantly horrified, and unaware. I couldn't help but feel for them.

    I think this is kind of opposite for IEI's. There really is that inconspicuous monster that lives deep inside. So yeah, I agree redbaron. The people closest to me describe me as relentless. My mother would tell you she's never known anyone stronger.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    Yeah, 8-7-3 would be great. so/sx perfect!!
    For you? Just make sure you stay away from sx firsts! They spell nothing but trouble for the poor sp-first

    As for me...

    Lol, it's a toughy. I think another sx/sp might be a bit stormy and intense for me. I think sx/sps in general seem to be really nerve-wracking experiences for anyone they consider close to them

    I think I'll just say that my head isn't in the right place at the moment to be fantasising about types and stackings

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    lol.

    @Starfall, I've actually inspired the impulse to protect in SLEs. Which I find rather comical, although I don't know that anyone would describe me as the strongest person they know.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    do IEI's really seem that easy to break?
    Hmmm. Perhaps I painted the wrong picture.

    Yes they do seem kinda fragile, but not so much that they are going to be broken but more-so that my relationship with them is easily damaged, not to say it can't be fixed. It's just that more often than not the fixing requires a certain amount of pride swallowing on my part which I'm not very inclined to do unless I really care for the person.

    It's weird though because it's for that same reason I could see an intimate relationship between me and an IEI going very well. I like putting out fires.

    I guess it depends on how much I like the person, If I don't care for them it's a nuisance if I do care for them then it's a blessing.
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    It's weird though because it's for that same reason I could see an intimate relationship between me and an IEI going very well. I like putting out fires.
    So basically victim-aggressor. Worth it if the person is worth it, if not, then not. Reminds me of a song about relationships (written by an LSI, btw).

    "We build a treehouse/I keep it from shaking/little more glue every time that it breaks/something something something/then I start making/conscious, deliberate mistakes."
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

    Yes 'a ma'am that's pretty music...

    I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.

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