I know you've seen this kind of thread a good amount of times...but I was checking both the INFp and INFj profiles on wikisocion and found that I can kinda relate to both in some way. Although I identify with the victim type more than infantile. I mean I can see the "forshadowing of events" but at the same time I try to pick up on the moods of people around me or close to me and try to influence it in a positive way. I mean I won't do that all the time if I feel like the person's approach wasn't genuine. Depending on my mood I could be really warm but then I can come off as cold. Fwiw I got a 4w3 for on the enneagram test..if I had to pick between ESTp and ESTj I would have to pick ESTp cause I think they are intriguing.