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    Default Sex Positions: Top or Bottom

    type related?

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    nah.
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    I like both.

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    One hand on top, one hand on bottom. Too easy.
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    Never done either, but both sound like fun. I sort of thought I'd enjoy being ridden (you know, victim-aggressor blah blah blah), but being on top actually sounds like more fun, I think.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

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    Both. And changing positions often. And also on the side in the name of equality.

    Girl on top is good if it helps her reach orgasm. Regardless of type.

    The more passive partner could try to be on top more in order to discover his/her more dominant side. And vice versa.

    If one partner is a little tired it is good to be on bottom. It can be nice to have someone make love to you when you're half asleep if you're comfortable.

    If both are tired but still horny they can decide to sleep a short while and then have sex when they wake up. It's a sexy decision.

    It's nice when it's unclear who is dominating and when roles are changing during lovemaking. It's unpredictable and exciting. Gender roles can sometimes prevent good sex. And sometimes gender roles are great during sex.

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    I like bottom, and an aggresive on top, and my hands on her shoulders pushing her down on me, lol

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    Women find it more pleasurable to sit on top while facing away from the man, because the male penis curves upward when inside, and the most erogenous zone is on the back wall of the vagina. But there is an even more important psychological component to sex that heightens the experience when a couple is staring into each other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Never done either, but both sound like fun.
    You mean you've only done "stand-up"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jxrtes View Post
    Women find it more pleasurable to sit on top while facing away from the man, because the male penis curves upward when inside, and the most erogenous zone is on the back wall of the vagina. But there is an even more important psychological component to sex that heightens the experience when a couple is staring into each other.
    This theory could probably make passable sense if it wasn't a front wall of the vagina.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aiss View Post
    This theory could probably make passable sense if it wasn't a front wall of the vagina.
    tbh I got it from a documentary a while back. But after some research it seems that the back wall has relatively few nerve endings, and that penises can curve in almost any direction when inside.
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    face down
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    that the way I like to fuck
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    Special positions I personally enjoy:

    Guy on top with me curved to the side a little, legs facing the side

    Me laying down straight, stomach down, with him on top, behind me.

    Feels best


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    the key is changing positions a few times. they're all good. impt to get some stim from all angles, and make it last.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    Special positions I personally enjoy:

    Guy on top with me curved to the side a little, legs facing the side

    Me laying down straight, stomach down, with him on top, behind me.

    Feels best
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    The best part is when they are doing the work and I can just sit back and chill out. Sometimes I do get aggressive but that's like a balance of power thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blaze View Post
    the key is changing positions a few times. they're all good. impt to get some stim from all angles, and make it last.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    face down
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    that the way I like to fuck
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    Feels best: me laying on my back with my legs on his shoulders.
    But overall I like everything + changing positions often.
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    70% bottom, 30% top. I guess. I mean the only man I ever loved was a bottom. Although we like to think of two bottoms as batteries that are in backwards, I just don't think in reality it's like that. I can FALL IN LOVE with another bottom more easy then I can a top, sometimes, but actually it's just irrelevant to feelings of affection, love, and eroticism.

    Some people tell me that opposites attract and I think they do, but the person I fell in love with was very similar to me. I'm the type of person I think where, similarities connect me more than differences.

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    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    Well when you say "top" and "bottom" are you talking about "penetrate" and "receive"? Or literally above and below?

    I have no personal data to give you, I just wanted clarification.

    It's probably my messed up BDSM mind that thinks top and bottom means anything different than literally above and below.
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    This thread is entirely too TMI.

    That said, bottom. I feel fat on top.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sarinana View Post
    Feels best: me laying on my back with my legs on his shoulders.
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    I don't give oral.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    This thread is entirely too TMI.
    Yeah, I just went through a few posts individually... I regret it...

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