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    Default No more bitching about people's types in Delta Lounge

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    I'm voting yes even though I've done it. My headache is gone and my mood has improved.
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    See also Delta moderation | Individual thread moderation - the16types.info Socionics Forums

    Someone brought up the idea of being able to moderate your own threads, the ones you create.

    I don't know if that is feasible, but I'd consider it for "my" Delta Lounge thread.


    I am tired Marisa bringing up peoples types in that thread. I don't want that. I want to have a thread. It's not just about Maritsa either, the bickering going on there, back and forth, about 'typing' of people, is unappealing. Yes, I have beena part of it.

    But I want to take action to stop that, and keep the lounge (at least the lounge thread - I know this is a socionics forum and people are going to bring up socionic stuff) - but keep the lounge free from arguing about it.

    I've started a poll in delta.


    IDK what to ask for in terms of solutions - if there should be a mod, or what. But I want to see what the options are for dealing with this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
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    Fuck you!

    I though you were the Te of the game.

    You don't act like one.

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    Yawn... oh hello maritsa
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    Quote Originally Posted by crazedratXII View Post
    Yawn... oh hello maritsa
    are you feeling better?

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    Yeah. Tell me something about you, Maritsa
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    any data/fact which you hold dear
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    Quote Originally Posted by crazedratXII View Post
    any data/fact which you hold dear
    I hold ideas better then datas and facts; for datas and facts I have to reference the sources and pull them, then hilight the information I seek to address, just like lawyers when they try to show something. By first, referencing to the code then bring the argument to match up the code.

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    I can't control who votes in the poll.

    I'd rather it would be of people who actually want to use the thread, than people, say, watching bitching for entertainment purposes.

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    The ignore function is also an option - I suggest trying it out.

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    You forgot an option for "Oh dear GOD yes please!". A simple yes will have to do.

    And I'm all for individual thread moderation as well in some cases... some would abuse it (i.e. edit what other people are saying or just deleting posts by people they don't like), but I think people would quickly learn whose threads to avoid in that case.

    I haven't even been here two weeks and I am heartily tired of seeing all the fights surrounding Maritsa. Take it outside, please.
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    While it is an option, is it really desirable to kick type-bitching out of the Delta Lounge, possibly leading it to spill out elsewhere? I find merit in encouraging people to take their disputes to a more appropriate thread, such ashttp://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...dentified.html, but I also think forced silencing is only going to anger any possible type-debaters and create more of a problem than it solves, making the system ultimately inefficient.

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    I'd want to mudwrestle with some of the delta hotties

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    Quote Originally Posted by aixelsyd View Post
    We should just create a socionics PvP tournament style MUD called Battle-Typing and let people take their inner frustrations and work, relationship, sexual frustration, and self-esteem related stress out through that.
    hilarious! The title of the thread was also funny. At first I thought it was going to say "No more bitching about SLIs by IEEs" (which I wouldn't be surprised to see eventually, except that all of us IEEs are so love-able in the way in which we bitch sorta jking.

    I think "battle typing" would best be found in beta, no? Though it sounds highly entertaining...kind of like Iron Chef (often a fav show in the Beta quadra from what I've seen).

    To break the rule (sorry), it does seem that Maritsa may be ESFj, because look at her reaction to this thread...I thought it was funny. And I'm guessing the INFjs didn't really care either way? (tell me if I'm wrong of course). I think Martisa is likeable, but I can see her and Ryu having one of those "lookalike" "cooperation" "comparative" (whatever we're calling it these days).
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    I can see her and Ryu having one of those "lookalike" "cooperation" "comparative" (whatever we're calling it these days).
    Business?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    The ignore function is also an option - I suggest trying it out.
    I have, actually, for the very first time. It's kind of strange. I'm still getting used to it. I don't like at all that I've been driven to it - up until now I thought I could handle most things like this ("they're just posts"), but in some ways I suppose it is relieving. It's still kind of upsetting, though, when some of it still seeps through. But we'll see how it goes...
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    Yeah, it's just gotten to the point where I don't want to deal with it. I don't like blinding myself intentionally, but, I'm just so tired of trying to talk sensibly to Maritsa and ending up going nowhere that I don't care.

    In some ways, I feel like if I keep talking to her, I just feel like I'm fooling myself by thinking she's trying to converse with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    I'd want to mudwrestle with some of the delta hotties
    sadly, I don't think the INFjs tend to be down for that (at least the one's I've known -- not that I've directly asked them this, but I'm just assuming). It's just so muddy and there could be germs in there. Unless you get some high-quality organic mud that is free of germs and then they'd be totally down, am I right INFjs?
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    Lobo would be down.

    And what about you, Jewels?

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    Yay, Ryu!! ur the best!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    Lobo would be down.

    And what about you, Jewels?
    I'll pass, just because it's undignified. . .unless of course it's with you Ryu, then we'll just have a big muddy bear hug.
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    I'd also pass, one because it's mud and that's gross. And two, like WorkaholicsAnon said, it is undignified. Though if you take the raunchy element out of it, it could of course be fun, because what ENFp wouldn't do something random like that?

    Though I know they have some sort of marathon type thing in Phoenix where they have to go through mud, but it's more "athletic" and more dignified. Still would be gross, but I would prob do that.
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    Depending on the circumstances, I think I wouldn't mind playing in mud, but not wrestling. More like what I used to do with my campers when I worked at a camp, when we'd go play in the creek. Splashing around, bare feet, finding "treasures"... Mud on my skin can be ok, like on my arms and legs or in designs. So long as there's a shower nearby and I don't have to look nice. But for me it would be all very gentle stuff.

    So, um, yeah, no mud wrestling for me in the rough or raunchy sense.
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    (I love wrestling, have even gotten bruised and dislocated my shoulder twice but still love it )

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    I'll pass, just because it's undignified. . .unless of course it's with you Ryu, then we'll just have a big muddy bear hug.


    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    I'd also pass, one because it's mud and that's gross. And two, like WorkaholicsAnon said, it is undignified. Though if you take the raunchy element out of it, it could of course be fun, because what ENFp wouldn't do something random like that?

    Though I know they have some sort of marathon type thing in Phoenix where they have to go through mud, but it's more "athletic" and more dignified. Still would be gross, but I would prob do that.
    Fair enough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
    Depending on the circumstances, I think I wouldn't mind playing in mud, but not wrestling. More like what I used to do with my campers when I worked at a camp, when we'd go play in the creek. Splashing around, bare feet, finding "treasures"... Mud on my skin can be ok, like on my arms and legs or in designs. So long as there's a shower nearby and I don't have to look nice. But for me it would be all very gentle stuff.

    So, um, yeah, no mud wrestling for me in the rough or raunchy sense.
    Mud wrestling doesn't have to be raunchy : / It could be like playfighting in water with someone, etc.

    Your version of playing in mud sounds enjoyable, to be honest. It reminds me of one of my beach-excursions when I went to Africa. One of the beaches on an island was rather nice, therapeutic to walk on almost.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    (I love wrestling, have even gotten bruised and dislocated my shoulder twice but still love it )
    That's 'cause you're a boy. I've noticed that the male species in general is a bit more physical, even the intuitives.


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    you INFjs can be much wilder than ENFps at times... jk I see what you're saying
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    you INFjs can be much wilder than ENFps at times... jk I see what you're saying
    Someone called me a "hot mess" recently. I thought it was very strange.

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    I was out with an INFj earlier this week and a couple of times she seemed fascinated with hitting me on the arm.


    INFjs, so violent.


    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo
    Someone called me a "hot mess" recently. I thought it was very strange.
    Urban Dictionary: hot mess

    Hot Mess:

    When ones thoughts or appearance are in a state of disarray but they maintain an undeniable attractiveness or beauty.

    Although Nichole had just awaken, her boyfriend thought she was stunning - she was a hot mess.

    Are you Nichole?

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    I'l agree to this and apologize for being a party in derailing the lounge

    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    I'd want to mudwrestle with some of the delta hotties
    pass, unless you substitute mud for gummybears or nutella
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    Mud wrestling happens on the isle of wight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
    That's 'cause you're a boy. I've noticed that the male species in general is a bit more physical, even the intuitives.
    boys are naughty

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    (I love wrestling, have even gotten bruised and dislocated my shoulder twice but still love it )
    you're a hot mess.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mariella View Post
    I'm voting yes even though I've done it. My headache is gone and my mood has improved.
    I'm glad to hear that
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    I vote that it is an inappropriate place to do such things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie84 View Post
    I'l agree to this and apologize for being a party in derailing the lounge



    pass, unless you substitute mud for gummybears or nutella

    OOOOO!! I'll do it in nutella too!! But still not wrestle.

    Nutella hug!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    Fuck you!

    I though you were the Te of the game.

    You don't act like one.
    I thought EII's didn't swear

    p.s. sorry couldn't help myself
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