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    Default I refuse to date anyone but ENFjs

    After experiencing duality with a very lovely ENFj woman (with whom I plan to go on experiencing it), I refuse to settle for anything less than the comfort, fulfillment, and chemistry afforded by this intertype relationship.

    I think everyone should learn to VI their dual and only pursue new relationships with specimens of that type.

    Anyone who objects to what I am saying has simply not experienced duality and so has no frame of reference from which to mount any serious objection.

    (Maritsa, please do not post in this topic if you're going to comment on my type. Thank you.)

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    Is it joy?
    It was in the reign of George III that the aforesaid personages lived and quarrelled; good or bad, handsome or ugly, rich or poor, they are all equal now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jxrtes View Post
    Is it joy?
    Nope.

    Quote Originally Posted by he died with a felafel View Post
    i just wanted to say that i'm happy for you and that i agree on your statement about duality.
    cheers
    Thank you.

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    On the left.


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    cool. i think any relationship within a quadra besides mirror can be fairly successful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by heath View Post
    cool. i think any relationship within a quadra besides mirror can be fairly successful.
    Yeah. Although duality is frikkin sick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heath View Post
    cool. i think any relationship within a quadra besides mirror can be fairly successful.
    From what I've seen the most successful are duality, business, and beneficiary.

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    From what I've seen the most successful are duality, business, and beneficiary.
    I've always found ISFps attractive but been turned off by INTps.

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    okay, whatever.
    "Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
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    "Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
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    Yup. LSIs are beyond the words... not the duality itself.
    Sincerely Yours,

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    Quote Originally Posted by sarinana View Post
    Yup. LSIs are beyond the words... not the duality itself.
    You know, people do say that I am LSI lol
    "Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
    --Theodore Roosevelt

    "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
    -- Mark Twain

    "Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
    -- Confucius

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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    After experiencing duality with a very lovely ENFj woman (with whom I plan to go on experiencing it), I refuse to settle for anything less than the comfort, fulfillment, and chemistry afforded by this intertype relationship.

    I think everyone should learn to VI their dual and only pursue new relationships with specimens of that type.

    Anyone who objects to what I am saying has simply not experienced duality and so has no frame of reference from which to mount any serious objection.

    (Maritsa, please do not post in this topic if you're going to comment on my type. Thank you.)
    I object!

    Actually I'm messing around.

    Thanks for the thread, have you had experiences with other types? What were they like in comparison to your dual?

    I'm still kinda so-so on duality, but I'm always having an open-mind to it... I'd love to experience it for sure.

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    IME, you shouldn't get along well with every dual. Some are nice but plain and boring. Some don't share your values or ideology or whatever. I've even seen duals finding each other pathetic and despising one another. Socionics isn't an after school special. Which is why it's important to find the 'right' dual.
    It was in the reign of George III that the aforesaid personages lived and quarrelled; good or bad, handsome or ugly, rich or poor, they are all equal now.

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    duh but conflict is conflict and duality only gets better with the quality of the dual

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    Yeah, we pretty much rule the world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    On the left.
    Thank God, the one on the left is like 40x hotter than the one on the right. Anyway, I think I'm going to date some hot IEIs first. And then move on to the SLE chicks when I'm more prepared. Also, if I went straight to duality, it wouldn't feel as special, would it? But seriously, I'm sort of excited for a romantic SLE relationship. I know lots of guy SLEs, and we're friends and that's great, but you can't have sex with your friends, and there's a certain kind of intimacy that you only get from a relationship that has a physical component (not just meaning sex)... although I suppose there's certain things you can get from friendship that you can't get from relationships... but all the same, yeah, I want a dateable dual.

    Glad you like your girlfriend dj.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

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    she's very pretty, dj!
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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Thank God, the one on the left is like 40x hotter than the one on the right.
    ouch! poor girl!
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    ouch! poor girl!
    Yeah, I know, that was kind of mean... but it was also true, just sayin... maybe not 40x, maybe just like 5-10x...
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    After experiencing duality with a very lovely ENFj woman (with whom I plan to go on experiencing it), I refuse to settle for anything less than the comfort, fulfillment, and chemistry afforded by this intertype relationship.

    I think everyone should learn to VI their dual and only pursue new relationships with specimens of that type.

    Anyone who objects to what I am saying has simply not experienced duality and so has no frame of reference from which to mount any serious objection.
    welcome to the enlightened club

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    Also, does your girlfriend know you refer to her as a "specimen"? 'cause that sounds kinda creepy, like you're going to do some sort of evil socionics experiments on her or something.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

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    I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Also, does your girlfriend know you refer to her as a "specimen"? 'cause that sounds kinda creepy, like you're going to do some sort of evil socionics experiments on her or something.
    She would probably just laugh. (she is his dual, after all. )
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    What happened to Joy?
    "Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    . Also, if I went straight to duality, it wouldn't feel as special, would it? .
    I cant even begin to imagine what level this sentence would make sense on, you dont need to prepare just go for it.
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    pirate, you're IEI again...
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    that SEI thing was just a joke to mess with pinnochio

    cuddles are gay

    long live beta
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    that SEI thing was just a joke to mess with pinnochio

    cuddles are gay

    long live beta
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    I'm glad that you've found someone you can have sex with discojoe
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    Quote Originally Posted by crazedratXII View Post
    I'm glad that you've found someone you can have sex with discojoe
    No you're not. You're jealous because you've never had sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Also, does your girlfriend know you refer to her as a "specimen"? 'cause that sounds kinda creepy, like you're going to do some sort of evil socionics experiments on her or something.
    She's not my girlfriend. And yes, I call her specimen all the time.

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    She died.

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    Who?? That same Joy???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Linas View Post
    Who?? That same Joy???
    Yeah.

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    Like, emotionally??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Linas View Post
    Like, emotionally??
    No.

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    Metaphorically?
    ILI (FINAL ANSWER)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crispy View Post
    Metaphorically?
    No.

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    WHAT DID YOU DO TO HER, YOU ANIMAL!!!???????

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    Quote Originally Posted by Linas View Post
    WHAT DID YOU DO TO HER, YOU ANIMAL!!!???????
    Cut her head off with a chainsaw.

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