As an H-LII, I have very strong, though unvalued .
My ESE mom has as her PoLR. I've gotten into conflicts with my PoLR mother over this function. Some examples:
My mother will say things to me like you better hurry up or you won't get to where you're going on time. She's known to grossly overestimate the time something takes. I'll leave at a time that I know will still get me to my destination with plenty of time to spare, which makes my mom very nervous.
Sometimes mom will have a sense of impending doom about alot of things, where I'll have a confidence that it will work out. My mom will see all these things that could go wrong, but I can see that so many of her fears are unfounded and most of these are extremely unlikely to happen.
Conversely, I'll see things that can go wrong and she just thinks I worry too much. But I *know* my worries and concerns are very real and are worthy of concern. So I see myself of having a much better estimation of both time and a sense of how things are likely to unfold in the future. However, I can't seem to explain to my mother my reasoning behind this all in a way that convinces her to see it as I see it. She seems to need *concrete proof* that something will or will not work out, which I can't provide her with.
Does anyone with strong have similar experiences when interacting with those who have weak , especially when interacting with PoLR types?