SLE women and alcohol abuse

[consentingadult]

I've noticed that many of the SLE Women I've known in my life, had issues with alcohol abuse. I get the impression that this alcohol abuse stems from having difficulties with external demands towards them behaving stereotypically female, which seems problematic for them.

Any thoughts?

[thePirate]

oh wow

I dont know how much basis there is for this, but I could see a possible correlation. A couple of different examples just came to mind where this could be true.

Ill update as I get more info.

[marooned]

meh, what about SLE men?

[consentingadult]

meh, what about SLE men?

I wouldn't know, I don't mingle with SLE men. They do not want to get into my panties (so to speak), and I don't want to get into theirs. You tell me!

[Absurd]

SLE men don't drink. They're sober all the time. I'm speaking from experience.

[consentingadult]

SLE men don't drink. They're sober all the time. I'm speaking from experience.

I know that's what they always say when they are pulled over by the police

[Absurd]

Hmm. Where do you live, adulteress ?

[Jarno]

SLE's just like to party and drink beer.

[Absurd]

SLE's just like to party and drink beer.

No, they're upstanding citizens. They don't like beer nor vodka. They live by the rules and never break them.

[consentingadult]

SLE's just like to party and drink beer.

I think there are a lot of SLEs amongst 'coma-drinkers'. But you're right, they do it because they like to party and drink beer, there's nothing wrong with that. But what I'm referring is, is that I have the impression that a lot of SLE women drink as an unhealthy emotional coping response.

[redbaron]

I know three SLE women and they're all very healthy and don't over-drink.

[consentingadult]

I know three SLE women and they're all very healthy and don't over-drink.

Are they dualized by any chance?

[xerx]

Amy Winehouse?

[marooned]

SLE men don't drink. They're sober all the time. I'm speaking from experience.

That's what I thought! Since they're not women they don't have these gender demands constantly being thrust upon them!

[redbaron]

Are they dualized by any chance?

one of them is married to her dual! the other one is very happily married to illusionary (SEI) and third is fairly happily married to her mirror (LSI) although she buries herself in work. All three of them are extremely business-oriented and keep themselves busy (one if 35, one is 46 and the other is 58!!)

[consentingadult]

Amy Winehouse?

Although I was talking about people I've known personally, I think Amy Winehouse might be a good example.

[Absurd]

That's what I thought! Since they're not women they don't have these gender demands constantly being thrust upon them!

I'm speechless. Exactly.

[consentingadult]

one of them is married to her dual! the other one is very happily married to illusionary (SEI) and third is fairly happily married to her mirror (LSI) although she buries herself in work. All three of them are extremely business-oriented and keep themselves busy (one if 35, one is 46 and the other is 58!!)

I think being in a good relationship (socionics-wise) can help keep an SLE woman out of trouble, because there are no demands on her that she can't live up to, which can be quite stress-relieving. I've seen something similar myself with my SLI ex, who took to drinking again some time after we split up. At the time we were in a relationship, some of her kin told me privately that I had a very positive effect on her. I, of course, didn't know any better.

[Absurd]

Sorry, but this is so funny, I had to post in it.

[consentingadult]

Sorry, but this is so funny, I had to post in it.

You've been drinking, haven't you? Admit it!

[Absurd]

I just had some apples (thanks, Abbie).

[jessica129]

I could see this. I'm not calling myself SLE, but relationship issues take a toll on me..probobly more than they would someone who's able to be open about what their problems are... so I usually end up drinking to forget but it never works

[consentingadult]

I could see this. I'm not calling myself SLE, but relationship issues take a toll on me..probobly more than they would someone who's able to be open about what their problems are... so I usually end up drinking to forget but it never works

I feel like giving you a big hug right now. It's a pity that you are so far away...

[jessica129]

I feel like giving you a big hug right now. It's a pity that you are so far away...

haha thanks. Its good I can find the humor in my situations.....even if after the fact.

[Disturbed]

SLE love children, but they hate raising them.

Like all other ESI-Fi (and deltas and gammas subtyped towards delta), our physical appearances frighten the vast majority of them and we don't know how to deal with them. I'm definitely not going to have any.

[The Reality Denialist]

Eh, eh. The thread has risen.

Some seem to drink a lot or have seasons regardless of their gender. Not all.

Between many SLE's and I it seems like I do not have any urge to drink (funnily there seems to be great bunch of LII's who are much more into booze than ILE's maybe getting hammered is result type thingy as I seem to have met good bunch of completely sober SEE's while ESI's seem to outnumber SEE's with a huge majority in getting hammered department ).

[sbbds]

I could see a slight correlation maybe but nothing too big. I don’t think alcohol is exactly constructive in terms of trying to become more feminine lol.