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    Default Identical relations: ESFp and ESFp

    How do you think they go? Initial attraction I guess but then what?

    Specifically, how do you think a relationship between two SEEs would go?
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    wow, 2 SEE's could be good.

    identities are fun...they see things exactly the way you do. i know may ILE friends, male and female. sometimes though when they do stupid stuff that you do too, it's kinda like *ouch* i do that too. it can get competitive if you dont' share the territory....but to me identity relations are pretty good as friends. don't think i'd like to be in a romantic relation with another ILE though.

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    horribly

    identical relations for aggressors is a recipe for doom

    possibly not including LSI
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
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    identical relations for aggressors is a recipe for doom

    possibly not including LSI
    Or ESI or... basically anyone who has something to do besides fight each other.



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    which agressors dont

    minus possibly LSI
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
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    identical relations for aggressors is a recipe for doom

    possibly not including LSI
    I know two SEE couples. My aunt and uncle, happy married for 30 years.
    Two colleague's. He was a big cheater with other girlfriends but is a good boy now.

    So I think based on my small experience that SEE identical relationship is pretty good.

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    I would expect something like aixelsyd said. I would probably get bored or too competitive with another ESI. For some reason I would have a difficult time seeing two SEEs stick it out for the long whole, but it's definitely not impossible. I would see their flakiness/random dislike as bothering one another once they got over the infatuation stage.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    which agressors dont

    minus possibly LSI
    Fight other people?



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    John Travolta and his wife are identical type couple; they make a good match because it's like having your twin around; they will do much of the same things together and have mutual understanding, but they should try to concentrate on different careers or goals so that the relationship does not become competitive and boring, also, they should take turns assuming dual roles so that they relationship will have a balance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    John Travolta and his wife are identical type couple; they make a good match because it's like having your twin around; they will do much of the same things together and have mutual understanding, but they should try to concentrate on different careers or goals so that the relationship does not become competitive and boring, also, they should take turns assuming dual roles so that they relationship will have a balance.
    John Travolta is SEE ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    I know two SEE couples. My aunt and uncle, happy married for 30 years.
    Two colleague's. He was a big cheater with other girlfriends but is a good boy now.

    So I think based on my small experience that SEE identical relationship is pretty good.
    the exception not the rule
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    John Travolta is SEE ?
    Yes he is; morphologically he and his wife are both SEE

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
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    identical relations for aggressors is a recipe for doom

    possibly not including LSI
    I disagree. They're just really really competitive. About everything.
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    An identical relationship would be boring. You have what they can give you, and you have nothing they need. Forgive me for typing this, but it seems as pointless as homosexuality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    An identical relationship would be boring. You have what they can give you, and you have nothing they need. Forgive me for typing this, but it seems as pointless as homosexuality.
    What? how can you see homosexuality as pointless?

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    the exception not the rule
    What does it matter now? It's clear that both cases are possible.

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    What? how can you see homosexuality as pointless?
    Homosexuals don't reproduce. Doesn't that rather defeat the purpose of sex?



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    Quote Originally Posted by aixelsyd View Post
    I disagree because homosexuality can have duality. :sighs wistfully: Sorry, I slip into sentimental moments concerning those special SEEs who are so dear to my heart quite often. Takes a SEE to make me wonder if I'm gay.
    And an identical relationship can have kids.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilliand View Post
    What does it matter now? It's clear that both cases are possible.
    The question wasnt if it was possible you Ne hooligan

    The question was how did we think it would go, I interpreted this question as a general inquiry into SEE identical relations. To say that they would, on the whole and average, fare well is more than an overstatement. If you take realistic people and not some ideal into account you can see this relationship between this particular type would not be something advisable.
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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