VI a good friend of mine

[redbaron]

from college! It's hard for me to type her since I've known her for so long. I do have a type in mind but I might be wrong.



Please don't copy pics. thanks!!

[crazedrat]

looks like carl jungs great neice. wild guess is enfj, but i really don't know.

[1981slater]

Ti-ENTp

[Trevor]

wild guess is isfp, but i really don't know.

[redbaron]

thanks for the guesses so far. let me tell you a bit about her. she's a high school english teacher, married to LSI (not necessarily duality, but might be). Whenever we get together, we have really good understanding but find ourselves almost constantly interrupting each other. (and I have no idea why!!) She's horrible in the car with directions and we both get easily distracted from what we're doing. She's free with her expression of emotions and laughs easily. She knits as a hobby and her house is generally disorganized. Not much focused attention to Si in her daily life but occasionally she'll be really proud of some recipe that she or her husband discovered and want to share it with me. The smell of eggs makes her sick and she gets motion sickness easily. (there seems to be a high degree of sensitivity to particular Si things in her life) In high school she performed in musicals and has always enjoyed singing.

Her parents got divorced when she was in her 20s and she's still not really "over" that. It affected her quite strongly. I think she's more rational than I am. She has "standards" for behavior and living life. But that could be due to religious upbringing (but I have that too and my standards aren't that stringent). She's not super extroverted and claims she uses a teaching persona when in the classroom that she had to work hard to develop over the first few years of her teaching career. She gets tired easily, and tired of being around people. She's probably more opinionated than I am. But it could be the influence of her LSI husband. She gets along well with my ESE husband.

EIE?

[1981slater]

... but find ourselves almost constantly interrupting each other...

Asker+asker=friendly interruption+generation of ideas (same quadra)
Asker+asker=outrageous interruption (opposite quadra)
Asker+declarer=outrageous interruption and conflict escalation (different quadra)
Declarer+declarer=everybody sleeps

She has "standards" for behavior and living life. But that could be due to religious upbringing (but I have that too and my standards aren't that stringent). She's not super extroverted and claims she uses a teaching persona when in the classroom that she had to work hard to develop over the first few years of her teaching career. She gets tired easily, and tired of being around people. She's probably more opinionated than I am. But it could be the influence of her LSI husband. She gets along well with my ESE husband.

EIE?

Sounds alpha or delta

[Beautiful sky]

Your good friend is either ENFj or INFj; is 100% NFJ; my first hunch is ENFj

[thePirate]

wow maritsa your posts look so much better on my ignore list

[redbaron]

hmmmm, interesting! maybe. I'll have to think about that one!

[redbaron]

I also thought it worth mentioning that your friend has a similar clothing style to myself ( my kids call it the bag-lady look! ). Also similar accessories such as small watch, hair-tie on wrist, lol, and only wearing basic makeup.

but what type are you? They're saying SEE or EII?

[redbaron]

well, fwiw, I had typed her INFp. but I'm not 100% sure. She's not nearly as obvious as me or my brother. I am more certain about her husband being LSI.

[redbaron]

I'm pretty certain she's EII after spending some time with her this weekend.

Pessimist. Probably E-6 or 6w5 or something. Most certainly NOT Se-dual seeking. Not great with Si either though. Doom and gloom. "Warning, warning, warning! Everything will turn out terribly if you're not careful!" type things.

And yeah I think she's married to LSI, which means they actually have a super-ego relation.

*sigh* Why are there so many deltas in my life? Do I look like a delta magnet to you??

[Satan]

I'm pretty certain she's EII after spending some time with her this weekend.

Pessimist. Probably E-6 or 6w5 or something. Most certainly NOT Se-dual seeking. Not great with Si either though. Doom and gloom. "Warning, warning, warning! Everything will turn out terribly if you're not careful!" type things.

And yeah I think she's married to LSI, which means they actually have a super-ego relation.

*sigh* Why are there so many deltas in my life? Do I look like a delta magnet to you??

it's cos you don't scare them away well enough.

[Satan]

I want to quickly note that if you're intelligent you might gravitate towards self-typing as an N at first... Sometimes descriptions make S types look almost... not deep, to put it lightly.

well si types aren't deep.

[redbaron]

it's cos you don't scare them away well enough.

apparently not. I need some lessons from you.