How I see it now, duals are like keys or shortcuts. Duals provide you the keys to live as the best person that you can possibly be. If your at a place where you cant take advantage of that, dont realize it, or refuse to, or close yourself off then the key doesn't get used. The shortcut isnt taken and your life remains the same. So in the sense that with duality comes happiness, that its injected into your life, I dont think thats the case. Its a choice of whether you let that in or not.