WOW, again my life feels like its in fucking shambles, socionics can seriously go suck a fucking dick. yes, its my fault, I know, I KNOW. Dammit. I read wisdom of the enneagram today, as many others have said, and as I will say now too, that is the ONLY ONLY ONLY book you need to figure out your enneagram type. all these little sites online and even other books by the same author are inadequate and somewhat garbage in comparison. just get that book.
anyway, to keep this short, I'm a 4w3 so/sx INFp. it pieced together the little holes that just werent adding up, the little nagging feeling I had. the intertype relations just werent adding up, I didnt understand how mirage was so horrible to me but fairly meh to others, or how isfp supervision was so terrible. now I get it, isfj benefit relations make PERFECT sense, so does isfp business. conflictor makes perfect sense too, I didnt understand how my relations with SLIS were that bad, I like them a fair amount; estjs on the other hand - there I can see the problem. with them it feels like I cant be fuckin honest without them blowin their tops off and they never EVER listen to me. I just avoid. Also other issues w people in general that just didnt correlate with an EIE's way of being. Everything just clicked. WOW.
Fuckin A, I cant believe I have SLE as my duals. mixed emotions here.
*sigh* this is an announcement not a declaration of wanting my type to be dissected. For the first time EVER, I feel comfortable with my type; the pieces are in place. If you want to, feel free to do so, I probably will engage in discussion as I still find it interesting. Not likely to be swayed though.