Is this type related? For example, my IEI, SEI and ESE kids had their IEI friend over for a sleepover. I kept hearing repeatedly my children asking the friend what she wanted to do. The friend clearly didn't care, didn't have any ideas, was happy to do whatever. I think my kids found it a little bit frustrating. They wanted her to have some clear idea of what she wanted to do and they spent a LOT of time trying to decide what to do next. ugh! Is this Se-related? Are they all needing Se as much as I do?? The ESE was the best at making the final decision, but it was clear that even she really wanted to be sure her guest was happy with the activity!
As another example, on a larger scale, knowing what you want to do in your life--is that function related? I've always felt with everything that I'm a floater, an indecisive feather being blown by the wind. That is, until I got some Se in my life through a couple of friends. And now I feel like a normal person!