Signs and behavior of LIEs-ENTjs showing interest/attraction

[million miles]

Hi everyone, I'm new here and this is my first post.

Is this normal for an ENTJ to behave when he/she is feeling close to someone or even liking that person:

- he will take out time to talk to me, even if it has to happen immediately.
- he gets quiet around me sometimes... and I don't know what he is thinking. Sometimes we go for a while without contacting each other and he will send me a message out of the blue. He will also hint he misses talking to me if we don't talk for a long while. He's never said this before, ever.
- he talks about so many things in my company and does(nt) realize he's expressing his innermost personal views and even things in his life he doesn't usually talk about. When we first met, a year went by and he didn't share anything personal with me. Nowadays, he's doing this.
- he teases a lot and will say some very random hilarious stuff if it is clear to him I am moody, angry or sad. He will usually stay put until I am better.
- he mentioned a few times things that are lovey-dovey but I dismissed it as I wasn't sure he meant it out of joke/flirting or if it was serious. He would immediately stop saying stuff like this too. And sometimes it feels as if he's being careful around me. I think I am a little skeptical. But he resorts to teasing me.

All in all, I really like him as a person. He makes sense and doesn't make sense at the same time. I don't know what he is thinking and he can be somewhat unpredictable too. There are these walls at front of him, I may have passed some, but not all of them. What's going on? Is he just being a good friend or feeling close to me?
How do you (ENTJs) behave or express yourselves when you like someone? Would you get shy?

- Maria

[Jarno]

Sounds like ESTJ.

let's not be to quick of a judge...

[million miles]

Sounds like ESTJ.

He's definitely ENTJ. Doesn't put emphasis on procedure, routine and what not, but sees if something can work even if it wasn't tried before, however, does value family and ethics.

[UDP]

let's not be to quick of a judge...

heh heh heh

yeah....

[ashlesha]

for the first time since i have gotten out of my previous relationship someone new is showing concerted interest and of course being the SICK SICK PERSON that i am, involved in socionics, i must analyze the little tiny bit of interaction we've had in terms of typology.

i dont even know if i like him yet.

he might be LIE? i'm shit at recognizing them.

so omg you guys what are LIEs like when they are interested?????????

[ashlesha]

AHHHHHHHHHHHH

NEVER MIND!

ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!

[fen]

What happened?

EDIT: Nevermind

[Pa3s]

ABORT!

You should have used a contraceptive.

EDIT: Too soon?

[ashlesha]

lol.

i suppose people can still answer the question if they want.

[Absurd]

Am I going to get smarter posting in every thread that I am smart?

[ashlesha]

[Today 12:49 PM] Absurd : Ehh, I'm not smart anymore.

hmmm?

[Absurd]

[Today 12:49 PM] Absurd : Ehh, I'm not smart anymore.

hmmm?

I was referring to the key situation. I had thoughts in my head that made me laugh and when I got back home I thought I lost my keys but I didn't, I put them in place, but I was still high, metaphorically, and forgot about it.

[ashlesha]

back to work this morning and i'm weirdly nervous. he works on my floor and he's very persistent. i have a feeling that continuing to avoid him isn't going to be enough and i will have to just tell him to go away. i just have a bad feeling.

[krieger]

would you be into him if he wasn't married?

40% of US marriages end in divorce. just sayin'.

[Aquagraph]

40% of US marriages end in divorce. just sayin'.

I always hear 50% but I guess people like to call it a round half.

[ashlesha]

would you be into him if he wasn't married?

40% of US marriages end in divorce. just sayin'.

the confessed sex addict thing would also be a deal breaker. meh I wasn't sure what to make of him. the biggest problem other than the obvious was I had a hard time making out his accent. which was a problem when he was unloading his skeletons because it took too long for me to process what he had said to respond with the appropriate amount of alarm and just ended up nodding like an idiot and giving the impression I was cool with it all.

[ashlesha]

btw the coast has been clear all day so it looks like my fears were unfounded. (thanks for the concern )

[Absurd]

Slip him that pill

[Aquagraph]

I just find this whole thing pretty silly.

[ashlesha]

i am bored a lot.

[Variant]

Just tell him what you think of him and give it a chance. 1 date to see what to make of him. Or not your choice

[Absurd]

I just find this whole thing pretty silly.

It would be even more silly if socionics started to speak, walk upright and make decisions unanimously.

i am bored a lot.

You're not.

[ashlesha]

we crossed paths in the hall earlier and he gave me a wide berth with downcast eyes. I didn't even have to say anything to him. he must have realized himself.

[FDG]

I'm generally rather forward and open. I'm quite impatient, so I will quickly try to ask you out. However, I'm very much not insistent, if you say no I won't try to win you over.

[Destroypuppy]

I'm sorry but if he is like me, you will have to say the words: I'm not interested in a romantic relation with you.

And you might have to say why also.

[ashlesha]

oh its cool he officialy apologized this morning. i think he's probably an okay guy with a genuine problem but its still in my best interest to keep my distance lol.

i doubt you're LIE.