I went on a blind date last night with an ILE; it was interesting to say the least. At first, I wasn't sure of his type, initially I thought he was ILI, but after awhile it became apparent how he really was.
He was very random, and it seemed like he needed to be entertained in some way that I wasn't sure of. He would talk about one thing, then jump to a completely different subject as if he was trying to tie them together. We had a few things in common, but not alot overall. It was obvious we had very different views on life; he made it apparent that he finds the world to be his playground so to speak and doesn't take it seriously. Where I take life way too seriously, (I guess this is the key difference between and ). I also noticed that their were many times that it seemed like he wasn't following what I was saying; that was frustrating.
We first met at a restaurant, but after awhile he wanted to go somewhere else. I think he was getting restless and needed a change of scenery. So we went to a bar which was full of hicks and I wasn't to keen on being there. He just went with the flow, but it was obvious to me anyways that we stuck out from the crowd.
I had fun, I will definetly see him again, but I noticed that I really couldn't be myself; which is why I started this thread. I always wondered why I became different around certain people, but now due to learning intertype relations I understand this phenomena.
So, I guess my question is: have you guys noticed how you change due to someone else's valued functions? How has this affected your relationships with people from other quadras?