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    Default Instinct Variant Compatibility: Similar to Socionics Benefit Relations?

    Does Enneagram instinct attraction works like Socionic Benefit relationship?

    I know most people here would agree that they pair well with the same instinct, but I speculate that it might have the same effect in identical relationship in socionics, which can be boring.


    So/Sx/Sp >Sx/Sp/So > Sp/So/Sx > So/Sx/Sp

    Sp/Sx/So > Sx/So/Sp > So/Sp/Sx > Sp/Sx/So

    This ring might have the same reciprocated attraction pointing back, unlike the socionic rings of benefit, so

    So/Sx/Sp > Sp/So/Sx >Sx/Sp/So > So/Sx/Sp


    From my observation I see that the energy is somewhat conflicting with each other when it's switch between the first and the second instinct. for example:

    So/Sx/Sp - Sx/So/Sp

    Sp/Sx/Sp - Sx/Sp/So

    The worse might be that you are pair with someone who has your last stacking as their dominant, and shared a middle identical stacking. For example:

    Sx/Sp/So - So/Sp/Sx

    Sp/So/Sx - Sx/So/Sp


    This can all be bullshit but I want to throw it out there to those who has an opinion on this.

    Regardless I strongly believe that Enneagram instinct has more to do with compatibility than the E-type itself. (E-type matching is a little vague In my opinion because so much Socionic types can fit into one Enneagram type. from all different Quadra and Conflictors to duals.)
    Last edited by 07490; 12-29-2009 at 07:14 AM.
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