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    okay have any of you fucked a caregiver? how was it? whats the difference compared to how aggressors/victims bang? whats their 'style'?how does it work well with infantiles? etc etc

    blowjobs, tugjobs, rimjobs, dirty sanchezes, any and all experiences welcome

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    okay have any of you fucked a caregiver? how was it? whats the difference compared to how aggressors/victims bang? whats their 'style'?how does it work well with infantiles? etc etc

    blowjobs, tugjobs, rimjobs, dirty sanchezes, any and all experiences welcome

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    ISFP pretty good to awesome
    ESFJ pretty good
    ISTP boring
    ESTJ extremely boring
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    filthy ramirez and dirty sanchez, more or less.

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    ESFj = best sex I ever had in my lifetime before the current one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    ESFj = best sex I ever had in my lifetime before the current one.
    and the current one is.... ?? (type)
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    The only one who really knows much about her is arguing ENFp, but I have a sneaking suspicion she might be INFp...

    (As I understand it, lots of ENFp's here have had trouble thinking they were INFp before)

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    The only one who really knows much about her is arguing ENFp, but I have a sneaking suspicion she might be INFp...

    (As I understand it, lots of ENFp's here have had trouble thinking they were INFp before)
    I'm sure she's INFp. :wink:
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    unbiased opinion there??

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    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    unbiased opinion there??
    it's just an educated guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MOP View Post
    And More importantly what makes ESE's So Great ?
    mine's very attentive. and surprisingly patient. and always game.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MOP View Post
    What makes Delta ST's Boring ?
    boring normal 5 minute up en down sex. Anything else is to kinky.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MOP View Post
    And More importantly what makes ESE's So Great ?
    Let's try out uhm.... everything.

    Let's do it for uhm... all night long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    okay have any of you fucked a caregiver? how was it? whats the difference compared to how aggressors/victims bang? whats their 'style'?how does it work well with infantiles? etc etc

    blowjobs, tugjobs, rimjobs, dirty sanchezes, any and all experiences welcome

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    this isn't applicable, you can't group them all together in terms of specific actions like that - ie, all alphas take it up the butt.
    Jarno's joking with the generalizations, right?


    Alpha is more playful than delta
    Delta is unfocused on Fe

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    Jarno's joking with the generalizations, right?
    no just exaggarating and ofcourse it's just my experience with a few persons. But I do believe there are clear differences between the types on average.

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    ah sex...hmmmm.....wanders off to go get some.

    better to do it than talk about it

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    What's all the fuss about caregiver sex? o_O
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    I've never had aggressor sex and I see no reason to start.
    I've had infantile sex and found it boring.
    I've had victim sex and found it uncomfortable and awkward.
    I've had caregiver sex and it was UNFUCKINGBELIEVABLEZOMG
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    tbh, I don't think there is that huge of a difference. I mean, there are subtle differences, but more similarities. There might be more obvious differences though in how girls are maybe (as maybe they feel more free to be themselves or whatever), but I think guys are more similar than not.
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    I've noticed that I have a strong tendency to go for the Se/Ni scale when it comes to sexin' it up, based on a quick analysis of my past. I think I've only done one caregiver (I can't discriminate his type beyond that though), and I found him rather uninteresting in comparison to the rest. It could just be him though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by electric sheep View Post
    I've never had aggressor sex and I see no reason to start.
    I've had infantile sex and found it boring.
    I've had victim sex and found it uncomfortable and awkward.
    I've had caregiver sex and it was UNFUCKINGBELIEVABLEZOMG
    aggressor sex is good in the beginning. plus it kinda makes you laugh since they're so fucking primitive. :wink: in a good way i mean.

    i think i've only had infantile sex with one partner maybe two...feels weird. kinda like too close in a not very fascinating way. almost like too much information.

    caregivers are great....they find a way to get you to relax. if you want a back massage, this is your partner...and if the massage happens to go somewhere ahhhh who am i to say no??

    victims are tied with caregivers for me. victims are kinda like dramatic and emotional, there's just a great wresting type of dynamic that's a turn on.

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    hi ThePirate I like your thread, it has been making me to be curious now about how people will view infantile sex. i do not like word infantile, but too bad for me since I am one hehe

    anyway i do not think the caregiver sex is boring, they can be very sexy and very passionate in my experiences. it is up to depending mostly on individual persons, of course but I see no reason for Si to be dull boring or whatever, especially as it allows them to know what will feel good and to want to do it for both people involved. and if there is an emotional attachment for them they will go the extra miles to insure you are having amazing time with them in the bedrooms, they aim to please.

    again, caregivers are the very sexy types, very sensuous

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    I think I'm pretty amazing. No one has ever told me I was 'boring'. Quite the opposite, actually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by electric sheep View Post
    I've had victim sex and found it uncomfortable and awkward.
    I don't think victims and infantiles should ever have sex with each other.

    I just realized that almost every girl I've had sex with was an aggressor.
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    Now that I think about it I almost made it with an ESI once. She was intimidating and I chickened out
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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    I think I'm pretty amazing. No one has ever told me I was 'boring'. Quite the opposite, actually.
    I have to experience it before I can judge that.

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    ESTj technically great but I agree with boring.
    ISFp too much into foreplay.
    INTj lazy. Doesn't like to be dominated much. Extremely kinky.
    ESFp GREAT GREAT GREAT. Would do anything to please. Not kinky himself but up to anything.
    INFp needed to be raped most of the time.
    INTp submissive. However doesn't need to be raped like INFp. Oral addict.

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    ESFJ: excellent
    ISFP: excellent
    ISTP: don't know
    ESTJ: above average

    ESFp: scary, unromantic, and very aggressive but convenient if you need to get laid
    INFp: always a good time
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    In my very limited experience, my caregiver is very attentive. If you're not enjoying it, he's not enjoying it.

    If I had to guess why some people say ISTps are boring, I would say it's because they find something that works and do that until you show them something else that works. Focus is less on creativity and more on practicality. Does it work or doesn't it?

    Also, from what I understand about my ESFp friend and his ESFp ex-gf I'm going to put my money with Ryan (at least as an infantile). Scary, unromantic, and all sex all the time. She was upset at one point because they'd had sex only twice one day that week. How do you not walk around like a bow-legged cowboy after that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mn0good View Post
    In my very limited experience, my caregiver is very attentive. If you're not enjoying it, he's not enjoying it.
    truth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    ISFP pretty good to awesome
    ESFJ pretty good
    ISTP boring
    ESTJ extremely boring
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    You are not a fucking ILI. ILIs are all virginal creatures.
    No they are not!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    You are not a fucking ILI. ILIs are all virginal creatures.
    Well considering I've wheeled three of them, not so much.
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    I've had sex with 500 people.

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    I did not have sex with 500 people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    I've had sex with 500 people.
    At once? That's impressive.

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