I'm trying to type my girlfriend and it's a real bitch to do.
I've pretty much decided that she's a definite IJ. My initial instinct was that she was an ESI (I even considered EII at one point, but I think this is very unlikely), then I opened that up to Se creative in general; so LSI and ESI. I've also considered LII, but some of her behaviours are in conflict with this.
The reason I'm in doubt about her being Se creative is because she's not great at making decisions (generally on a basic level, like whether to have wine or lager), and I can't imagine a bad decision-maker who has Se in their ego - basically the only reason I think she's not Se ego. At the same time, she says stuff like "deal with it", "take some initiative' and "fucking get on with it" (not to me, haha, just in general e.g. if she's telling a story or something) in a very Se manner.
The reason I think she is ESI > LSI is because she refuses to debate with me. She doesn't argue at all, in fact. This is one of the things that actually led me to believe she might be a Ne/Si type. (But I still see Se there, which is why I went for ESI over any other type. However, I've also considered SEI for her.) Fundamentally, though, I think it's because she doesn't like my Ti.
However, I doubt ESI because her tastes in comedy are basically Alpha. She loves Curb Your Enthusiasm and has said of Larry David (ILE) that she "wishes he was my friend". What kind of ESI wants their conflictor to be their friend?
So I have some questions for Se creatives.
1) Are you/could you be bad decision makers ever?
2) Are there times you won't argue, and why won't you argue at these times?
3) Do you like what is described as "Alpha" comedy e.g. Curb, Trailer Park Boys, Flight of the Concords etc.?
If you are IJ and have any general comments about this/questions to see if you feel affinity with her or whatever so you can go "definitely not EII" or something, please go for it.
Oh yeah, I've pretty much decided that she's a definite One - or a very small off-chance she's an 8w9. Most likely One (I s'pose that doesn't help much since all IJs can potentially be Ones).