I mean beyond the blame-phase of identifying "what's wrong with those people that bother me so much?" I've been finding (well, it helps that I'm not sure which one is my opposing quadra) that it really does seem less and less likely over time for me to possibly even dislike my opposing quadra (whichever it is). I think that I sort of view quadra values as a positive thing in terms of positive in knowing oneself in a different/new/or certain kind of way... to reaffirm what might really be important to me, basically. And plus, I mean it's obvious, but the longer one even dwells on socionics the more diversity it starts being fleshed out with. I think that I might come to view my opposing quadra as "fascinating, but it might be more difficult to communicate with them." I actually tried on disliking different quadras at different times just to see if some sort of deep dislike would resonate to tell me something important, but alas, I think that failed. The truth is that there is far too much diversity within each quadra for it to even matter... which of course is just like everything else and just like any other categories of things and why on earth do we have to make all these categories just to follow them and reach the same obvious realization in the end that we knew even when we began but out of our human lameness we had to pursue it anyway. I feel largely apathetic about all four quadras.