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    Thumbs up Temperaments: IJ appreciation thread

    IJ's are awesome because they're:

    • prompt (well, the Se creatives are at least)
    • responsible
    • self-controlled
    • punctual
    • decisive (well, the Se creatives are at least)
    • self-possessed
    • reliable
    • on top of things
    • responsive (well, the Se creatives are at least... it goes along with being prompt and decisive)
    • consistent
    • stable/steady
    • thorough
    • hot
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    ISJ appreciation thread?
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    All IJ types are awesome though.
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    ickle wittle IJ's.

    *vomits basically everywhere*

    only INTj's are good IJ's. and even then i pity...
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    ickle wittle IJ's.

    *vomits basically everywhere*

    only INTj's are good IJ's. and even then i pity...
    And yet you consider EII a possibility for yourself?
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    lol i did?
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    It appears I've misunderstood your sig.
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    ooohhh okay then
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    IJ's are awesome because they're:

    • prompt (well, the Se creatives are at least)
    • responsible
    • self-controlled
    • punctual
    • decisive (well, the Se creatives are at least)
    • self-possessed
    • reliable
    • on top of things
    • responsive (well, the Se creatives are at least... it goes along with being prompt and decisive)
    • hot
    It fits me, sort of.

    Prompt: usually. Occassionally, I'll run a little late. It's not a big deal to me unless I'm really late, then I feel bad.

    Responsible: yes

    Self-controlled: yes

    Punctual: see prompt. How are these different exactly?

    Decisive: Yes, I mean no. Wait a minute, I think that's yes. Then again, maybe not. I agree that this is a more Se creative thing.

    Self-possessed: Sometimes. I think it's mainly an introvert thing

    Reliable: Very. I try if at all possible to do what I say I'll do and feel bad if I can't pull through

    On top of things: Depends on the things. On top of meeting deadlines and due dates? Yes. I take those seriously. On top of the latest in fashion? Hell, no.

    Responsive: Depends on what exactly and the context of the situation. Not sure how to answer this.

    Hot: Unfortunately no. Not type related.
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    Quote Originally Posted by warrior-librarian View Post
    Punctual: see prompt. How are these different exactly?
    Punctual is being where you're supposed to be when you're supposed to be there. Prompt is responding me quickly, whether it's the response I was looking for/expecting or not... at least I know one way or another. I hate it when things are up in the air.
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    hm I am few of those things

    I don't really have any of the good Ij qualities, I think it's because I'm a 3. I'm in some kind of Ij-Ej limbo zone.
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    The hot thing was sort of a joke. I just meant that IJ types are more attractive to me than any other temperament.
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    oh no, I'm definitely hot.
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    btw, you'd probably fear sleep less if you practiced meditation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    Punctual is being where you're supposed to be when you're supposed to be there. Prompt is responding me quickly, whether it's the response I was looking for/expecting or not... at least I know one way or another. I hate it when things are up in the air.
    I think I'm more punctual than prompt. I'm very prompt with somethings, not so prompt with others. For example when responding to someone's emails, I'll sometimes respond within minutes, other times I can take days to get back to someone.


    Quote Originally Posted by fear of sleep View Post
    hm I am few of those things

    I don't really have any of the good Ij qualities, I think it's because I'm a 3. I'm in some kind of Ij-Ej limbo zone.
    Most of the qualities fit me somewhat but only a couple on there fit me strongly. J is my weakest dichotomy of the four. I identify with the Ip temperament almost much as the Ij one.
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    Sounds like boring people with a stick up the ass.
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    How would you describe IJ's?
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    Sounds like boring people with a stick up the ass.
    Subtype makes all the difference here. C subtypes like me are an exception to this rule.

    N subtype = Boring people with a stick up their ass
    D subtype = Boring people without a stick up their ass
    H subtype = Fun people with a stick up their ass
    C subtype = Fun people without a stick up their ass
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    btw, you'd probably fear sleep less if you practiced meditation.
    I do! It's great! My fearing sleep days are years past. Maybe I should switch names to something related... like electric sheep. You see, robots dream of electric sheep.

    hey add "thorough" to your list. That fits me.
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    Fine, I'll ask. What are N, D, H, and C? (D for dominant and C for creative?)
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    Quote Originally Posted by fear of sleep View Post
    I do! It's great! My fearing sleep days are years past. Maybe I should switch names to something related... like electric sheep. You see, robots dream of electric sheep.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fear of sleep View Post
    hey add "thorough" to your list. That fits me.
    Yes, that's a very IJ thing, too. They're excellent with follow through.
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    I added appreciation topics for the other temperaments... just to give other people the opportunity to state what they like most about people of those temperaments. Compatible temperaments (EJ/IJ and EP/IP) are strongly encouraged to participate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    Fine, I'll ask. What are N, D, H, and C? (D for dominant and C for creative?)
    System of DCNH Subtypes - Wikisocion


    Compatibility and Duality - Wikisocion

    In the second article, the H subtype should be initiating/connecting and D should be terminating/connecting
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    Quote Originally Posted by warrior-librarian View Post
    Prompt: usually. Occassionally, I'll run a little late. It's not a big deal to me unless I'm really late, then I feel bad.
    Yah, same here. I think this should also go under "Se Creative IJ's" since LII's and EII's tend to have poor time management skills due to Se PoLR

    All IJ's are generally "Consistent" and "Stable"
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    Responsibility comes with age.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    IJ's are awesome because they're:

    • prompt (well, the Se creatives are at least)
    • responsible
    • self-controlled
    • punctual
    • decisive (well, the Se creatives are at least)
    • self-possessed
    • reliable
    • on top of things
    • responsive (well, the Se creatives are at least... it goes along with being prompt and decisive)
    • thorough
    I don't think these qualities really apply to Ne-IJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    Sounds like boring people with a stick up the ass.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie84 View Post
    Yah, same here. I think this should also go under "Se Creative IJ's" since LII's and EII's tend to have poor time management skills due to Se PoLR

    All IJ's are generally "Consistent" and "Stable"
    Added.

    Quote Originally Posted by polikujm View Post
    Responsibility comes with age.
    Any type can be responsible. Temperaments are more of a natural tendency than anything.

    Quote Originally Posted by Diana View Post
    I have an INFj friend who fits all of those qualities you quoted. I would also be surprised if someone like Minde didn't fit most or all of them also. Of course both of those people are Fi-INFj, Ne subtype might not be quite the same.
    I'm not too worried about FDG or eunice's feedback on this topic because I don't agree with their self-typings (in spite of the fact that just about every post I see from eunice is trying to convince someone, not sure who, that she is indeed EII).

    I had been thinking that FDG could be LSI lately though, but this topic reminded me that he tends to have negative things to say about both the EJ and IJ temperaments. Maybe SLE works best for him after all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuturututu View Post
    I appreciate some IJs.
    I appreciate you :redface:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    decisive (well, the Se creatives are at least)
    Ne creatives are Judicious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by warrior-librarian View Post
    System of DCNH Subtypes - Wikisocion


    Compatibility and Duality - Wikisocion

    In the second article, the H subtype should be initiating/connecting and D should be terminating/connecting
    I don't know about all that...

    I don't have a regular subtype (dominant vs. creative), and it sounds like a bit too much work to determine whether I have a subtype in this other theory.
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    So where to "normalizing" and "harmonizing" fit into model A?
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    Okay. In that case, I maintain that I don't have a subtype.
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    By the way, I obviously wasn't serious.
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    Good! You had me confused for a minute there. I do see you as a rational type.
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