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    During sex I like to lock eyes with my partner.
    Kind of like a staring contest, Some could call it creepy.

    Is this type related.

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    Whatever, I dunno, but it sounds legit. Too bad you're a dude. Hopefully girl SLEs do that too.

    EDIT: in all seriousness, it could fit with the "contest" theme people have been applying to victim/aggressor relationships lately.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

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    So your IEI, and that's something you like too ?

    This could possibly be Victim Aggressor Thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Hopefully girl SLEs do that too.
    Yep
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    Making eye contact during sex is just plain creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    Making eye contact during sex is just plain creepy.
    yeah, I don't. In fact, I consciously try not to. hmmm. But I wonder if it depends on the person/situation?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    Huh?? Why?

    No eye contact during sex is like ... no contact with the other person. I might as well do it alone.
    oh there's contact alright. it's just not through the eyes.

    (I think for me, there's a reason that goes beyond generalities. But I won't get into that here.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by ProcrastinateTomorrow View Post
    During sex I like to lock eyes with my partner.
    Any volunteers to test this? It's for science.
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    That can be erotic, I like to do that too (sometimes).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    Huh?? Why?

    No eye contact during sex is like ... no contact with the other person. Boring.
    Maybe if you really care about the person i guess and you're in a certain...uh...position. But even then it's uncomfortable. Too intimate maybe. Eyes open just feels unnatural....like kissing with your eyes open.

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    When you're really into each other I don't see how you could help it, or why you wouldn't want to. Your minds connect through your eyes.

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    yeah...when you're just having sex to have sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    That can be erotic, I like to do that too (sometimes).
    HOW?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    HOW?!
    bwhaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    HOW?!
    HAHA

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    When you're really into each other I don't see how you could help it, or why you wouldn't want to. Your minds connect through your eyes.
    Yeah, that's is when you really really like feel comfortable with the person at all level, like I have remembered my eyes lock with other LSI for a good few second and it wasn't awkward, far from it and that look feels calmish, mutual and you really need that if you are ever going to built a life around someone.
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    You people are weird. You can have your eyes open in whatever way you want, who cares. I can't believe some of the things white people psychoanalyze.

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    How do you know what will freak you out until you do it? It's probably just a nagging indifference than a freak out. I thought I was afraid of spiders but I just don't like them.

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    idea doesn't immediately sound horrible to me. idk, maybe going with the OP that it seems intimate. i don't know about a full on staring contest but it would be way weirder if the person you were having sex with just refused to look at you at all. lol.
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    Isn't eye contact, I don't know, kind of gay? I mean, it's during sex, and they're the same organs. Maybe if one was looking and the other one was looking away

    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    oh there's contact alright. it's just not through the eyes.
    Exactly. Although, I agree with Warlord. There should be some sort of science experiment to test this.

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    Wait, I didn't know that people didn't do this, haha. I even stare a bit during completely meaningless casual sex.
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    When you make love, do you hold eye contact?
    Does he look like me?
    Do you tell lies?

    I don't want to hold eye contact with you baby
    Holding eye contact with you might drive me crazy
    I know it scares you
    I don't want to close my eyes

    Eye contacts lives, eye contact dies
    It's no surprise
    It's what I need

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    On her knees:

    "I thought you wanted me to give you some eye contact, sweetie"

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    lol those def leppard lyrics are really bad.

    this thread is making me laugh now.
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    extended eye contact during sex just sounds scary.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ProcrastinateTomorrow View Post
    During sex I like to lock eyes with my partner.
    Kind of like a staring contest, Some could call it creepy.

    Is this type related.


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