So, is there a difference in the way IEIs & SLEs interact online compared to in-person?
IEI-SLE Duality in Real Life vs. Online (INFp-ESTp)
So, is there a difference in the way IEIs & SLEs interact online compared to in-person?
Last edited by parcel; 08-30-2009 at 09:11 PM.
EII
o.0
What do you mean love?
And hi, cause I don't think we have met.
IEI, sp/sx 4w3.
o.0
What do you mean love? I guess online interaction is always different.
And hi
IEI, sp/sx 4w3.
Originally Posted by octopuslove
In my experience: a HUGE difference. I don't think text is a great medium for transmitting Se.
I work next to an SLE-Se who's a sort of big brother figure to me. So much of our interaction is based on physical space - it's hard to describe, but there are lots of impulsive movements and joking threats. When I interact with him online or through SMS it's all just his Fe-HA coming through, albeit forcefully. (It probably doesn't help that he's quite clearly an Se subtype.)
I haven't interacted with many SLEs from this forum in depth, apart from Mimosa, but it's difficult to compare male and female, and I don't think SLEs (particularly SLE-Ses) are particularly active on internet forums. I don't get much of an Se impression from my interaction with Mimosa though, I'm often convinced that she's my identical. I guess that's testimony to how much better Ni is conveyed over the internet - from my perspective, at least.
Very helpful. Makes sense.
EII
Yeah, I agree with this completely. It's like night and day talking to SLEs online vs. in person.In my experience: a HUGE difference. I don't think text is a great medium for transmitting Se.
I work next to an SLE-Se who's a sort of big brother figure to me. So much of our interaction is based on physical space - it's hard to describe, but there are lots of impulsive movements and joking threats. When I interact with him online or through SMS it's all just his Fe-HA coming through, albeit forcefully. (It probably doesn't help that he's quite clearly an Se subtype.)
I haven't interacted with many SLEs from this forum in depth, apart from Mimosa, but it's difficult to compare male and female, and I don't think SLEs (particularly SLE-Ses) are particularly active on internet forums. I don't get much of an Se impression from my interaction with Mimosa though, I'm often convinced that she's my identical
"How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
In this case, the question was about IEIs & SLEs specifically. I don't think anyone denies that communication is different irl.
EII
I'm goofy.... but how can I be goofy when the other person doesn't see my face doesn't hear the inflections of my voice?
Online you can get quality interaction only if you use a webcam and voice... not text.
"What is love?"
"The total absence of fear," said the Master.
"What is it we fear?"
"Love," said the Master.
I chose Love
Yes, I can't agree more, it is generally the enneagram instinct stacking that separates your present in online or in real life if anything. So I will expect that relationship will develop better if both person has the same stacking.
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
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