Thank you for that lovely bit of spite, Diana.
Ritella, while obviously INFj, might not be the best to explain this to her, so I suggested looking outside just that one person for input. And though comparing yourself to someone to try and nail down a psychological match seems pretty outlandish, it may come in handy.
WL, while BG and Mune both self-type as SEI, I think they're both certainly Ne INFj. They also both don't seem to care much, which is both lovely and highly admirable.