This person / relationship!!

[EllaC]

Hi guys, can you tell me either what person / relationship socionically this person is to moi... thank you!

* Easy to start, fast to start relationship
* Notices a lot around us
* Notices artsy stuff
* Tells you they like extreme sports, making money, working VERY hard
* But communication shows a sensitivity, a care about others, checks if okay and stuff. Admits is quite feminine in nature
* Seems easy going, and tolerant
* Kind blah blah


Wouldn't think it's a dual, but it seems quite a good relation

Any opinions x

[1981slater]

SEI

[smilodon]

working hard and SEI?

[Erk]

Yeah, working hard and SEI or IEI do not really go together.

[EllaC]

Yeah, working hard and SEI or IEI do not really go together.

That was my reservation... in fairness, a lot of it is in creative stuff and promotion, but not all. Other choices were SLI, ESE, SLE...but I'm not sure about them... :s

[Ave]

The first and last points seel like activity relation.

[redbaron]

Yeah, working hard and SEI or IEI do not really go together.

I object to this. they work hard when they WANT to work hard, at things they care about.

[Creepy-Pied Piper]

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[The Exception]

Activity or dual is my guess. Activity relations tend to be the quickest to start. The description of the person seems a little more SEI than ESE, so I wouldn't rule out dual as a possibility. Person could be ESE too.

[EllaC]

Thanks guys for your inputs, have some more points if this helps:

* Notices things about the environment, to which my response is 'i'd never even have thought of that!' or they say 'did you notice that' etc. and I value this
* Has lots of random facts about things, to which I think is cool
* Not an awkward relation, comfy, enjoyable
* More touchy feely than myself, kind
* Good with people, not boundaries like you don't dare say / do things...
* Not majorly outgoing, just a normal level, not quiet either
* It doesn't feel like I use a lot of analytical stuff, or sort of Ne, or the things I've found or come accross, we talk about other things... hmm

Does this clarify anything?

[717495]

I get ESE from all of this. Liking extreme sports and making money isn't the most valuable piece of information at this point.

How about temperament. Is he more or less active or extroverted than you?

[redbaron]

My vote is SEI.

[EllaC]

I get ESE from all of this. Liking extreme sports and making money isn't the most valuable piece of information at this point.

How about temperament. Is he more or less active or extroverted than you?

Extroverted in the sense they notice more than I do about things around us. I couldn't be certain, but I assume that they are an average level of sociability, maybe slightly less so than me, but nothing noticable. Probably less likely to tout for friends etc. as I do.

Also a few more facts:

* A routine, a clear routine of who makes contact, i.e. not, "oh it's their turn / should I contact them?", we take it in turns, and this for some reason seems clear, though not verbalised
* Has a store of jokes, experiences (although not excessive), I do not have these.
* Interested in business, but not like an LIE would be, nothing like that, not threatingly so.

I wonder what type this is, doesn't seem like a dual I've experienced before, but those burned out anyway, so my typings could be wrong.