V.I. My Boyfriend AND I
For those that do know me and my tales already, just PRETEND you don't know my type or his -- what vibe do you get from us? More particularly, from him? I finally got a new digital camera after AGES of not having one and here I go, camwhorin' it up.
UPDATIONNNN as of Jan/23/10
If i didn't know your type I'd say You=Beta irrational and he is IXFp.
The end is nigh
possibly Ni INFp for him and Fe INFp for her. He seems a little vaguer, hence field focused. Lux is more direct and sharp, which i associate with Fe IXFp's.
so yeah...
The end is nigh
He does kinda look ISFp, Malia...
But... If you look closely... The look in his eyes... It's similar to other Se-ESTps I know... So I think he's beta... Se-ESTp or Se-ISTj
I can't tell w you... need more neutral photos... I think prob INFp though.
I sense some Adam Duritz vibes
INFj
9w1 sp/sx
posting a few pictures of yourself doesn't legitimize VI and still doesn't make you an IEI.
I'm curious, what in your opinion would legitimise VI?Originally Posted by niffweed17
Was that her goal?
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Se ESTp, JuJu?
how the fuck.
You need to have a mental time-out and think about things.
The end is nigh
You guys seem like you get along well.
Yah - it was funny, but now it's just ... bizarre how sure and adamant he is about these typings O___o
Anyhow... yes we do get along fantastically of course, and I do suppose that knowing my backstory has pretty much ruined all chances of a real 'first' impression.
Although looking at the pictures now, I see the big difference btw his eyes and mine - that whole, more unfocused vs. sharp look. I think that would be really cool if it meant something towards subtypes.
Would you say he culled this from fat air?
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Fe INFp's are object focused
Ni INFp's are field/subjectively focused
Objects are things that exist outside of subjective qualifications.
So objects are more "real". Fields are sorta based on your "viewpoint" and hence why Field modes are "introverted". They are focusing on their own subjective lense of reality and the specific, darting objects are of less impression.
So Ni subs are more vague and spacey looking (Take a look at Strrrng's video he had up, if he still does) and Fe subs are more sharp, refined, "aware", etc.
Your pictures illustrate the difference quite well actually.
*oh and watch one of Kam's videos for an Si ISFp VI. Same spaceyness.
The end is nigh
It's not my fault you're bad at this... You've been here as long as I have... I think he's an irrational beta... and to be honest, i think you are ESFp.
how do you type your boyfriend..?
not that it matters much... you seem to type everyone else wrong... i'm hoping you got it right though.
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YES!
beta irrational for him.... SEE for her
In the second picture, you look old, and he looks fat.You both look young and thin in the others, though (minus the one where there's no way to tell whether he's fat or thin).
As for type... you have a hardened look about you; Decisive. He looks softer... Judicious. He also seems passive [Ixxx]... I'm gonna say you'rerather than
, you don't have much of a physicality about you. On the other hand, he has the physicality to make up for it; there's a visible contrast there.
You:
Him:Base
(I'm not noticing any VI evidence against either of you beingego.)
(Wow, I'm getting a headache from looking at you... you're beautiful, but your aura leaves me with a sour taste in my mouth. I'm stopping there.)
LII-Ne
"Come to think of it, there are already a million monkeys on a million typewriters, and the Usenet is NOTHING like Shakespeare!"
- Blair Houghton
Johari
I have no idea, but you sure look good together.:wink:Was just looking through old threads ... want more opinions!Updated the pictures right now, replaced with new ones.
ISTp
SLI
Enneagram 5 with a side of wings.
My guess would be SEI for him (though I wouldn't discount SLI as a possibility), and IEI for you.
ILE for the guy in the blue shirt.
Yes.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Yeah, probably.
LII-Ne
"Come to think of it, there are already a million monkeys on a million typewriters, and the Usenet is NOTHING like Shakespeare!"
- Blair Houghton
Johari
can we find out the answer already?
LOL man this was an awesome commentIn the second picture, you look old, and he looks fat.
As for type... you have a hardened look about you; Decisive. He looks softer... Judicious. He also seems passive [Ixxx]... I'm gonna say you're
You:
Him:
(I'm not noticing any VI evidence against either of you being
(Wow, I'm getting a headache from looking at you... you're beautiful, but your aura leaves me with a sour taste in my mouth. I'm stopping there.)
What exactly is the sour aura that I give off? Can you describe it more?Probably my
It's weird how many SEI typings for him there have been. Hm. A physicality? You know what's weird, I used to note that in him too when I first met him; it's one of the things that attracted me. Something in the way he walked and the posture, all that... grounded or in tune. It came across as masculine to me.
Yeah he's IEI and I'm EIE, self-typed. But he's a really weird IEI, most of the time he does act SEI or even ILI. It's just strange how I can see him having traits of both but they're superegos from different quadras. Imo, he does have strong
He's enneagram 9 sp/sx. That explains a ton of his conflict avoidance. Me on the other hand... holy crap. I blow up. We actually have fights over his lack of aggressiveness and my over-aggressiveness that stirs shit up even more. I just don't see the point of not confronting people. Let it all out.
The blonde guy hahaha that's his brother in law and he's really funny, alwaysss cracking jokes. I've always suspected ILE. Pretty good guys!
Not at all surprising when he VI's exactly like this guy.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
EIE, how confident are you of that typing? Also, would you happen to be a Enneagram 4?Yeah he's IEI and I'm EIE, self-typed. But he's a really weird IEI, most of the time he does act SEI or even ILI. It's just strange how I can see him having traits of both but they're superegos from different quadras. Imo, he does have strong
Hmm, I notice you never smile in pictures, only slight grins that dont exactly scream 'happy'. I'm not implying that you should pose or anything for the camera, I just find it odd, curious to see if theres a backstory. This does have something to do with the aura you project, you seem alot more expressive on the forums.
I dont know about 'physicalities' or anything, but he does come off alot softer than you do. You do have a presence to me, like a black hole of anger and depression, also some numbness. its almost as if your demeanor is taunting someone to step up and do something. restrained, but explosive.
your bf does have that head in the clouds thing going on in the pic with him in the green shit, dont know if its indicative of him as a whole. seems like he might be a homebody, energy doesnt seem to be too up there. gives off the vibe that he would be a pleasant person to be around, like he doesnt cause too much shit and is generally chill.
its funny in one or two of the pics you guys smile almost exactly the same but the energy you both project is very different, although his smile isnt wide or anything theres something optimistic about his expression compared to yours; a lightness, some might even say innocence? hmm..
<Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" isand not
I've noticed this with EIE's in pics. I think it may beWhat exactly is the sour aura that I give off? Can you describe it more? Probably my HA ... it's really strong lately. I have my reasons.
EIE tritype 5w4, 4w5, 9w1
As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being.
Carl Jung, "Memories, Dreams, Reflections", 1962
no he is ESI.
The end is nigh
Haha, aww dont take that too seriously. I was dramaticizing for added effect, your strength is evident too. It goes hand in hand with the conflict. Your demeanor just makes things abit more apparent, I'm assuming its an sx first thing.
<Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is
I actually don't think Johnny Depp VIs as SEI. Maybe I'm wrong.
Apparently though, there has recently been a hoax about his death.
I don't think you look angry or depressed, just concentrated and potentially volatile.
4w3-5w6-8w7
Nice... potentially volatile
It kinda dismays me (lol dismay) that so many ppl get a weird negative, even dangerous vibe from me based on these pictures. I get that in person a LOT too... it's rather annoying though because I feel like when I try to be friendly, it never ends up working, people still think I come off too strong and back away.
Sx first... what can ya do.
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Guy:
Girl:
Most likely. Not 100% sure.
Well I am back. How's everyone? Don't have as much time now, but glad to see some of the old gang are still here.
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