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    For those that do know me and my tales already, just PRETEND you don't know my type or his -- what vibe do you get from us? More particularly, from him? I finally got a new digital camera after AGES of not having one and here I go, camwhorin' it up.











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    If i didn't know your type I'd say You=Beta irrational and he is IXFp.
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    possibly Ni INFp for him and Fe INFp for her. He seems a little vaguer, hence field focused. Lux is more direct and sharp, which i associate with Fe IXFp's.

    so yeah...
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    He does kinda look ISFp, Malia...

    But... If you look closely... The look in his eyes... It's similar to other Se-ESTps I know... So I think he's beta... Se-ESTp or Se-ISTj

    I can't tell w you... need more neutral photos... I think prob INFp though.

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    I sense some Adam Duritz vibes



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    posting a few pictures of yourself doesn't legitimize VI and still doesn't make you an IEI.

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    Quote Originally Posted by niffweed17 View Post
    posting a few pictures of yourself doesn't legitimize VI
    I'm curious, what in your opinion would legitimise VI?

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    Quote Originally Posted by niffweed17 View Post
    posting a few pictures of yourself doesn't legitimize VI and still doesn't make you an IEI.
    Was that her goal?
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    Se ESTp, JuJu?

    how the fuck.

    You need to have a mental time-out and think about things.
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    You guys seem like you get along well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    Se ESTp, JuJu?

    how the fuck.

    You need to have a mental time-out and think about things.
    Yah - it was funny, but now it's just ... bizarre how sure and adamant he is about these typings O___o

    Anyhow... yes we do get along fantastically of course, and I do suppose that knowing my backstory has pretty much ruined all chances of a real 'first' impression.

    Although looking at the pictures now, I see the big difference btw his eyes and mine - that whole, more unfocused vs. sharp look. I think that would be really cool if it meant something towards subtypes.


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    Quote Originally Posted by niffweed17 View Post
    posting a few pictures of yourself doesn't legitimize VI and still doesn't make you an IEI.
    What ? LOL I wasn't trying to either of the above :S


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    What ? LOL I wasn't trying to either of the above :S
    Would you say he culled this from fat air?
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    Fe INFp's are object focused

    Ni INFp's are field/subjectively focused

    Objects are things that exist outside of subjective qualifications.

    So objects are more "real". Fields are sorta based on your "viewpoint" and hence why Field modes are "introverted". They are focusing on their own subjective lense of reality and the specific, darting objects are of less impression.

    So Ni subs are more vague and spacey looking (Take a look at Strrrng's video he had up, if he still does) and Fe subs are more sharp, refined, "aware", etc.

    Your pictures illustrate the difference quite well actually.


    *oh and watch one of Kam's videos for an Si ISFp VI. Same spaceyness.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    Yah - it was funny, but now it's just ... bizarre how sure and adamant he is about these typings O___o
    It's not my fault you're bad at this... You've been here as long as I have... I think he's an irrational beta... and to be honest, i think you are ESFp.

    how do you type your boyfriend..?

    not that it matters much... you seem to type everyone else wrong... i'm hoping you got it right though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diana View Post
    Don't listen to me, because I don't VI. But, if all I had were these pictures, my guess would be SEE for you, and IEI for him.
    YES!

    beta irrational for him.... SEE for her

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    Was just looking through old threads ... want more opinions! Updated the pictures right now, replaced with new ones.


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    In the second picture, you look old, and he looks fat. You both look young and thin in the others, though (minus the one where there's no way to tell whether he's fat or thin).

    As for type... you have a hardened look about you; Decisive. He looks softer... Judicious. He also seems passive [Ixxx]... I'm gonna say you're rather than , you don't have much of a physicality about you. On the other hand, he has the physicality to make up for it; there's a visible contrast there.

    You: Ego
    Him: Base

    (I'm not noticing any VI evidence against either of you being ego.)

    (Wow, I'm getting a headache from looking at you... you're beautiful, but your aura leaves me with a sour taste in my mouth. I'm stopping there.)



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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    Was just looking through old threads ... want more opinions! Updated the pictures right now, replaced with new ones.
    I have no idea, but you sure look good together.:wink:
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    My guess would be SEI for him (though I wouldn't discount SLI as a possibility), and IEI for you.

    ILE for the guy in the blue shirt.

    Quote Originally Posted by Brilliand View Post
    ...you don't have much of a physicality about you. On the other hand, he has the physicality to make up for it; there's a visible contrast there.
    Yes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Parkster View Post
    ILE for the guy in the blue shirt.
    Yeah, probably.



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    can we find out the answer already?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilliand View Post
    In the second picture, you look old, and he looks fat. You both look young and thin in the others, though (minus the one where there's no way to tell whether he's fat or thin).

    As for type... you have a hardened look about you; Decisive. He looks softer... Judicious. He also seems passive [Ixxx]... I'm gonna say you're rather than , you don't have much of a physicality about you. On the other hand, he has the physicality to make up for it; there's a visible contrast there.

    You: Ego
    Him: Base

    (I'm not noticing any VI evidence against either of you being ego.)

    (Wow, I'm getting a headache from looking at you... you're beautiful, but your aura leaves me with a sour taste in my mouth. I'm stopping there.)
    LOL man this was an awesome comment lmao @ us being old and fat, respectively ahhaha well let me assure you I'm 20 years young and he's not fat =D

    What exactly is the sour aura that I give off? Can you describe it more? Probably my HA ... it's really strong lately. I have my reasons.

    It's weird how many SEI typings for him there have been. Hm. A physicality? You know what's weird, I used to note that in him too when I first met him; it's one of the things that attracted me. Something in the way he walked and the posture, all that... grounded or in tune. It came across as masculine to me.

    Yeah he's IEI and I'm EIE, self-typed. But he's a really weird IEI, most of the time he does act SEI or even ILI. It's just strange how I can see him having traits of both but they're superegos from different quadras. Imo, he does have strong and strong ... at least in comparison to me LOL I'm just a ball of and posturing ... not much else!


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    He's enneagram 9 sp/sx. That explains a ton of his conflict avoidance. Me on the other hand... holy crap. I blow up. We actually have fights over his lack of aggressiveness and my over-aggressiveness that stirs shit up even more. I just don't see the point of not confronting people. Let it all out.

    The blonde guy hahaha that's his brother in law and he's really funny, alwaysss cracking jokes. I've always suspected ILE. Pretty good guys!


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    It's weird how many SEI typings for him there have been.
    Not at all surprising when he VI's exactly like this guy.

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    lmao...

    but Johnny's an IEI!


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    Yeah he's IEI and I'm EIE, self-typed. But he's a really weird IEI, most of the time he does act SEI or even ILI. It's just strange how I can see him having traits of both but they're superegos from different quadras. Imo, he does have strong and strong ... at least in comparison to me LOL I'm just a ball of and posturing ... not much else!
    EIE, how confident are you of that typing? Also, would you happen to be a Enneagram 4?

    Hmm, I notice you never smile in pictures, only slight grins that dont exactly scream 'happy'. I'm not implying that you should pose or anything for the camera, I just find it odd, curious to see if theres a backstory. This does have something to do with the aura you project, you seem alot more expressive on the forums.

    I dont know about 'physicalities' or anything, but he does come off alot softer than you do. You do have a presence to me, like a black hole of anger and depression, also some numbness. its almost as if your demeanor is taunting someone to step up and do something. restrained, but explosive.

    your bf does have that head in the clouds thing going on in the pic with him in the green shit, dont know if its indicative of him as a whole. seems like he might be a homebody, energy doesnt seem to be too up there. gives off the vibe that he would be a pleasant person to be around, like he doesnt cause too much shit and is generally chill.

    its funny in one or two of the pics you guys smile almost exactly the same but the energy you both project is very different, although his smile isnt wide or anything theres something optimistic about his expression compared to yours; a lightness, some might even say innocence? hmm..
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    What exactly is the sour aura that I give off? Can you describe it more? Probably my HA ... it's really strong lately. I have my reasons.
    I've noticed this with EIE's in pics. I think it may be HA. We want to project an aura of being kinda tough and not easily hurt, which more often than not, isn't the case.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    EIE, how confident are you of that typing? Also, would you happen to be a Enneagram 4?

    Hmm, I notice you never smile in pictures, only slight grins that dont exactly scream 'happy'. I'm not implying that you should pose or anything for the camera, I just find it odd, curious to see if theres a backstory. This does have something to do with the aura you project, you seem alot more expressive on the forums.

    I dont know about 'physicalities' or anything, but he does come off alot softer than you do. You do have a presence to me, like a black hole of anger and depression, also some numbness. its almost as if your demeanor is taunting someone to step up and do something. restrained, but explosive.

    your bf does have that head in the clouds thing going on in the pic with him in the green shit, dont know if its indicative of him as a whole. seems like he might be a homebody, energy doesnt seem to be too up there. gives off the vibe that he would be a pleasant person to be around, like he doesnt cause too much shit and is generally chill.

    its funny in one or two of the pics you guys smile almost exactly the same but the energy you both project is very different, although his smile isnt wide or anything theres something optimistic about his expression compared to yours; a lightness, some might even say innocence? hmm..
    A black hole of anger and depression eh? Oh man... didn't know I was that bad. Jesus Christ.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    lmao...

    but Johnny's an IEI!
    no he is ESI.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    A black hole of anger and depression eh? Oh man... didn't know I was that bad. Jesus Christ.
    Haha, aww dont take that too seriously. I was dramaticizing for added effect, your strength is evident too. It goes hand in hand with the conflict. Your demeanor just makes things abit more apparent, I'm assuming its an sx first thing.
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    lol, this thread. You're all so charming.

    He's cute Lux. I agree with the resemblance to Johnny Depp; they do have a similar air from pictures. I also see some similaritys with Lokivanguard.
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    I actually don't think Johnny Depp VIs as SEI. Maybe I'm wrong.

    Apparently though, there has recently been a hoax about his death.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux View Post
    A black hole of anger and depression eh? Oh man... didn't know I was that bad. Jesus Christ.
    I don't think you look angry or depressed, just concentrated and potentially volatile.
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    Nice... potentially volatile

    It kinda dismays me (lol dismay) that so many ppl get a weird negative, even dangerous vibe from me based on these pictures. I get that in person a LOT too... it's rather annoying though because I feel like when I try to be friendly, it never ends up working, people still think I come off too strong and back away.

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    Guy:
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    Most likely. Not 100% sure.
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