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    Default Time to VI my mom, haha...

    OK. My dad was the guy in the war photos.

    Someone guessed my mom is ENFj.

    I THINK she is INFj, ethical subtype (and if she were ENFj, she'd also be ethical subtype)... but what do you all think?

    Note: (probably not type-related, BUT... she is very embarrassed in photos and freezes up a lot. Has a very hard time performing in front of anyone.)









    Now, this is blurry... but it's my mom with her (likely) ENFj sister-in-law:
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    Changed my mind. INFj does sound reasonable.
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    ISFj or ISTj.

    First guitar chord: G (major), second D.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    Fwiw, she mostly reminds me of ISFj celebs and people I know, including two females from this forum.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    ESE or ESI.

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    man: SEI?
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    I'd like to say that I think ESI is also a feasible type for your mom.
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    your parents remind me of photos of my parents, who i currently think are an ENFj/ESTp couple.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MaliaFee View Post
    They got married in August 1974 (had been together since early 1973).

    They've always had arguments/fights but overall their relationship is very good. They've now been married nearly 35 years!

    They describe their relationship as very happy, but I will say that when you observe them they commonly have some kind of "misunderstanding" -- my mom will say something kind of pointed and critical, which my dad usually just puts up with, but sometimes he'll respond just slightly sticking up for himself. Then my mom gets terribly offended and thinks he's being inconsiderate of her feelings. They talk for a while, neither understanding the other, and finally my dad apologizes. These are just little brief "issues". Mainly, they get along and do things together -- they go out to eat, they watch TV, my mom cooks for my dad, and they both play musical instruments. They share a lot but I think if you get them talking together for too long, one of those "misunderstandings" where my mom gets her feelings in a bunch will happen. But she can be very touchy.

    In the 90s, my dad's alcoholism and compulsive gambling became really extreme and my mom kicked him out for a short time, after months/years of tumultuous situations due to him gambling and drinking and coming home after days of being away, her being very hurt and of course angry with him, then forgiving him, and it all happening again. My dad hasn't drunk or gambled in years and years, and that is what has facilitated their relationship to be good again, I believe.

    I believe my mom to be INFj.

    I always thought my dad was Si-SEI but have been recently convinced he's probably Ti-SLE, and that only because I was convinced Neil Young was that type, and I truly think they are the same types (there is too much similarity in movements and expressions in real life). But I don't know because he really acts more like an SEI, from my perspective.
    You know in my opinion they are probably not duals but semi duals. Probably they are IxFj and ExTj...

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