Who is right and who is wrong?
I have a very nice, new, minivan. My inlaws are visiting and my husband got a used car, which is not particularly nice or new but is functional, for them to drive when they are here. My minivan is the only car that the babyseat can go in as we have one seat base and it was put in by a car seat safety expert and we don't want it moved. And the baby and I have to be together all time time as I am her only food source. So the idea was that my minivan would stay with me and the baby and they could take the other car if they want to go out somewhere that I don't want to go. So today they're off someplace that would be difficult to go with the baby. So I decided not to go. And AGAIN they wanted to take my minivan because it is more comfortable. But if they take it, I'm stuck at home ALL FREAKING DAY and have no ability to go anywhere, which drives me crazy.
So should their desire for comfort (Si) win, or should my desire to always have the possibility of going out (Ne) win?