My girlfriend likes to get attention and shes very flirty with members of the opposite sex(thats how we got started).
She has alot of personal problems and isnt very emotionally stable. She tends to do alot of rebellious things that get her into trouble like making bombs, throwing stuff at houses, etc.
Everyone tends to like her. She has alot of friends.
She is somewhat intrusive with her problems and talks about them alot, she needs lots of attention towards her.
Shes somewhat mature as a person but this isnt easy to notice as outwardly she comes as ditsy and airheaded, and stereotypically immature(only stereotyically, which doesnt make her truly immature).
Shes very impulsive and does alot of dangerous stuff without thinking of the consequences, like hard drugs for example.
Shes not easily grossed out or impressed by things that would disturb most people; she isnt at all squeemish.
She doesnt seem to dwell on the past; she tends to focus on the present and has fun regardless of whether or not she left someone behind.
She very concerned with her own well being; she takes what is good for her and likes to draw concern to her problems and talks about them alot. She needs to be liked by the people she talks to for the same reason; because she always chooses what is good for her right now in the present.
I always thought she was Se-ISTj. ISTj because of her need to be liked in a psotive kinda way and the importance of her close circle relationships, and Se subtype because of impulsiveness.