Probably related to being 9wDoormat, but that last time I tried to engage a relationship with another caregiver, it was sort of crappy. 80% because I sort of got shoved off into "That's Gul, he's my Moral Support man" land.
I imagine an Infantile would just burst through some sort of nearby breakable surface and scream out FUCK THAT SHIT and deliver a killer solo on a trumpet made out of hollow vegetables or something. So, yeah.
I guess my point is that SEIs can dream too, sometimes.. 
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Banana Pancakes
I think they just want someone to appreciate their constant, excessive affection.
Plus doesn't it get kind of boring being Si all the time? They need someone to shake things up a bit and create some disasters for them to stabilize.
This. Yes. SFs go in for the whole fawnication thing (lolol see what I did there?). This would probably drive anyone but an Infantile insane.
MORE IMPORTANT EDIT
NOW THAT I AM SEI, AND A CAREGIVER, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, HER DUAL
DOES THIS MEAN I CAN START HUGOSTALKING WERO AND WRITING HER CREEPY POETRY AND MAKING HER STRANGE KALEIDOSCOPING ARTWORKS?
Examples and stories of "childlike" romancing style
which is static, irrational, and extroverted, with perceptions focused on possibilities and alternatives to the static present reality, which the individual perceives as intrinsically boring and stagnant. This means that an Infantile sees attraction between two individuals as a static state, also from the point of view of the other person, which he tries to "get moving" by actively thinking of variations of the present static state. This accounts for an Infantile's inclination to focus on the mutual attraction, or particularly the attraction felt by the other person, as connected to that person's being exposed to the unexpected, imaginative, fun, even "weird" side of life, reality, and each other, a behavior that can be described as "childlike". This focus leads to a sort of helplessness regarding his own physical well-being as perceived by
, so he welcomes help from others in that area.
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, I would say the following. Whenever I am in a situation where I feel like I want to "attract" people (as odd as that sounds) I will always try to crack a joke about something that either is analogous to what is being talked about at the moment, or something that has nothing to do with is being talked about. My approach to humor is to divert from the current topic, which might be boring (subjective) or just has been extended for too long, with something that in a way catches people off guard because they probably weren't thinking about it beforehand. I've found that with other Ne types, sometimes we can be thinking about the same thing, because we found the "analogy" or somehow naturally connected one thing to the other. So, jokes between us tend to be more readily understood than with other types, or can see where you are coming from. On the other hand, it sometimes fails with other people. For example, I was talking to this friend of mine on the phone and I asked him "what's up?" (I'm skipping the "hello" part because it's not necessary), and he told me that "he's been very busy." So I ask him "did you hide the body?" He just got very confused, so I had to explain the joke. At times it makes one look sort of foolish when you are "left hanging" because no one got wth you are talking about. In these moments you wonder if people consider you to be mentally ok.
