An ENFj girl loves me because she sees me as stable, mature and serious. She wants stability in her life and it seems she sees it in me. What the hell , when I heard it I was like "Wait. WHAT???".
It is surely not the first time people see in me what they want to see and not what I am. Question to other ENFp's would be...Does it happen to you? Why do you think it is? I realise we are contradictory but then I would expect people to see first that we are contradictory and not something else like stable or planning or whatever different people attribute to me.