ILEs and romantic relationships...
Okay, okay alpha is probably ideal. But in reality: who do ILEs end up with in long-term relationships?
I know one who is married to my sister, his dual (yay!)
One married to an SLI...been together 8 years, and it's not good. They started out having similar lifestyles, but the ILE wanted to move to a new city, and the SLI won't go. Neither one can take care of the emotional roadbumps they've had. They're living in separate cities now. It started with a 2 month stint... and it's been about 6...
Another living with an SLI for 6 years... I thought they were doing better b/c they have similar lifestyles and hobbies, but I've recently found out that she (SLI) was offered a job in another city (cutting-edge technology job, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity), and he (ILE) wants to take a contract job on the west coast for a while. I can tell it's bothering her a lot. Aaaand that puts them where couple 2 is, with neither of them being able to handle the discussion.
What is it with the six year mark?!? Couple 2 hit their major difficulties that year as well.
One is with an IEI... They've been together 2 years, long distance, and I think they've decided to get married, though they're not engaged. We'll see how that shapes out..
Last ILE... single... really cute, really fun... ladies, any takers? lol
I'll try ;D
I've never dated an ILE.
Ye are a brave _____.
Originally Posted by Skyline
I agree; you are brave. Since you spoke up first, I will kidnap said ILE and deliver him to your tree house, and you can have your way with him.
i'll tear down the sky
My best friend is an ENTp, and really, she's had no pattern. All of the men she's dated have been rather different. Another ENTp, I think an INFp, ENTj, INTj, ESFp... among others. I think her method is to just go with the flow, and eventually the right one will pop up, dual or not.
I know an ENTp girl married to an ISFp guy. They seem totally happy and have a kid.
I really think ENTps need ISFps, so best to go w/ duality if possible. I do know a few ENTp guys who go for what they think are "exciting" girls and then it crashes and burns. they need someone grounded who likes their adventurous scattered-ness (ISFps obviously).