Why am I attracted to violent people? Looking back in my life...I chose friends/lovers that had a definite violent streak to them, that were dangerous- that even got in trouble with the law for attacking people and threatening them.
Is it because I feel safe with them? That, I know they could turn their rage onto me - but I also feel so protected by them, is it mere dual-seeking? I remember people who were more gentler tried to get me not to talk to these people who were dangerous, but I still felt more comfortable being around men and women that knew how to fight.