SLEs/ESTps are hot

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

I hear people say that, stating the obvious like that.

But it's like, anybody in their right mind would agree that SLEs are physically and sexually attractive. In that pure, primal way that would get anybody's juices flowing. It is basically the typical 'porn star' type. But I appreciate SLEs psychologically as well, and this socionics thing is inherently about psychological compatibility, not what makes one's dick hard. I have no doubt in my mind that nerdy INFjs fap it to ESTp porn late at night. However, they're still psychologically opposed to one another.

So anyways I guess what I'm saying is that raw attractiveness doesn't correlate to relationship compatibility at all; as much as we'd like to think otherwise. Now IF I am definitely an IEI, I of course have it made cause I'm both romantically and sexually attracted to a group of people (SLE) that are objectively the hottest in the world. Yay me.

You could say maybe for other types, they don't care as much, but I sense they ARE envious. Would you rather fuck some nerdy INTj with an obvious Se-polr or a nice big fat ESTp cock that's confident in his movements? Everybody (and I mean everybody) would pick the SLE and you know it.

Sex is not love.

[betterthan]

Lol I agree with glamourama... 0.o
Don't derive your self-esteem from the fact that the 'big time' ESTps are into your personality type. You are fierce anyways, all IEIs are .

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

You are fierce anyways, all IEIs are.

'Fierce?'

What kind of ad hominem attack is that, asshole?

Don't derive your self-esteem from the fact that the 'big time' ESTps are into your personality type.

Of course I don't derive my self-esteem from it, but it is an interesting perk nonetheless. =D

I'll check out glam's materials later.

[betterthan]

'Fierce?'

What kind of ad hominem attack is that, asshole?


I'll check out glam's materials later.

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Defensive much?

I wasn't even attacking you 'asshole'.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Then why the eyeroll? Eyerolling to me is usually a sign of rude behavior, unless it's some hip 'subtle' thing kids are doing these days that I'm not aware of. Also, 'fierce?' Wth. I am sooo not fierce irl.

If it wasn't an attack, then I'm confused- as it's a clearly false perception on my character.

[idolatrie]

I thought that was how dinki was using 'fierce'.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

Wow. If that's how people are seeing me as, that's honestly offensive to me. Not cause it 'fits gay stereotypes' but just because it's so WRONG.

I definitely have a gay voice and I suck so hard at sports, but I'm realistically not that well, faggy or fashion-esque or squee-y AT ALL. That guy's hair looks like utter shit and those emo glasses make me want to puke. I'm stereotypically gay in some ways, certainly (and I'm not insecure about that) but it's in more of the gentle, shy type gay.

I'm also about 50,000 times more naturally serious than that guy is. You really can't compare us.

I remember one time somebody on stickam once actually had the idiocy to call me 'flamboyant' and Ashton defended me and said I'm crude but not flamboyant, which is definitely true.

Jeesh. (some of you) You guys don't know me at all.

And how many gay guys do you people even know anyway? You need to meet a wider variety of gay men then. Maybe I *do* need to talk it more if that's the impression you get from me.

Oh dear.

Did you ever think when I 'act gay' I am mocking being gay, like the 110% stereotypical view of ******s, the media image of homosexuality, like that queer is? But because it's just words on screen you don't know if I'm mocking gay stereotypes or actually just being myself, that happens to fit gay stereotypes. LoL.

I thought this socionics thing was deeper than mere 'impressions' is it not?

[Mattie]

And how many gay guys do you people even know anyway? You need to meet a wider variety of gay men then. Maybe I *do* need to talk it more if that's the impression you get from me.

Oh dear.

Did you ever think when I 'act gay' I am mocking being gay, like the 110% stereotypical view of ******s, the media image of homosexuality, like that queer is? But because it's just words on screen you don't know if I'm mocking gay stereotypes or actually just being myself, that happens to fit gay stereotypes. LoL.

I thought this socionics thing was deeper than mere 'impressions' is it not?

How you come off is part of who you are, this is a concept outside of socionics as well, though based off of the id, ego, super ego, etc area. Your Persona (to get Jungian) is a part of who you are and reflects a part of your personality. You can't just act a certain way and expect people to always look past it. To some people, that may be superficial/over-dramatic.

And there might be more people of alternative sexualities here, and are comfortable with it, but aren't as out and about with stating it in a sense of it's no different to mainstream sexuality in the sense of needing to be known. Possibly type related.

[Gilly]

You are not like that at all. I think she just meant it as a humorous example of "fierce."

[FDG]

Then let's cook some eggs on them.

[idolatrie]

I thought 'fierce' was kind of a compliment? I know it became one of the fashionista buzz words post-Christian, and Tyra on ANTM uses it a lot too. I took its colloquial meaning to be something akin to being strong and sassy and someone who is not a walkover.

I really wasn't implying you are like Christian at all. That would be, uh, helllllll no. I was just going for the example which best showed the alternative meaning of fierce?

I use fierce as a compliment. 'That bracelet is so fierce', but then again, I also talk in lolcats 'that lettuce was good noms', so hey, what do I know.

I know plenty of gay men, B&D, and I've never thought you skew towards the 'fabulous' end of the spectrum.

[betterthan]

fierce
A word used by two fashion divas, Tyra Banks and Christian Siriano. It is used to describe someone or something that stands out from the crowd for all the right reasons. It gets noticed.
1: Christian: Yeah I'm..kinda fierce and kind of a big deal.
O my God, My outfit was so fierce!

2: Tyra: It's gonna be...FIERCE!
Girl you betta work it and be fierce!

Lol when in doubt check the Urban Dictionary .
Ahh but now I get why you might have been offended, lmfao at that guy - I don't think I can use that word now after watching that clip , I didn't mean to offend, I was complementing you lol - hence my rude eyeroll...

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

I'm sorry if I overracted.

It's just ugh I'm more upset at what he's wearing than his mannerisms. Seriously, emo glasses and frizzy hair and totally 'fagging out?' He just looks absolutely retarded. I want to gay bash him myself.

The media can suck my donkey nuts.

[betterthan]

I'm sorry if I overracted.

It's just ugh I'm more upset at what he's wearing than his mannerisms. Seriously, emo glasses and frizzy hair and totally 'fagging out?' He just looks absolutely retarded. I want to gay bash him myself.

The media can suck my donkey nuts.

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That's ok

[Ezra]

I have to disagree. I think there are some people who are genuinely not attracted to SLEs.