Whats up everyone I was wondering if you guys could help me figure out something that's been bugging me recently..
I have a very good friend that I am almost 100% sure is ISFp (I should probably mention here that I am new to this board but not new at all to socionics and am pretty confident in my typing skills), yet I don't feel any sort of negative misunderstandings/tension when we hang out, rather its pretty chill with lots of Fe flying around between us (maybe his Fe activates my role so I end up using much less of my base function?) I do notice that when I think about it I almost never make Te statements directly too him, rather I would turn to either my intj friend (because I think he would get it) or my ESFp friend (because I know he would be interested) or just say it to the group. Or when I do make the statements to him he agrees and thats as far as that thread goes but I can tell it's probably not the way he was thinking about it. However, I do find we have a very similar sense of humour and have similar tastes in television/music/movies. Also, despite being good friends we rarely hang out one-on-one. Does this sounds like a positive conflicting relationship (oxymoron?) to anyone? Are conflicting relationships (and I guess by extension any relation) likely to develop positively as long as a certain respect level is kept? I also notice that my ESFp and INTj friend get along well (although I guess they can seem kind of indifferent to each other).
If I contrast this relationship with my relationship with my sister (kinky) who is also ISFp, there is a lot (almost constant) disagreements/small annoyances and I can totally see the conflictor relationship in this case.
Has anyone else had a long term positive relationship with their conflictor?