you know... agressor is supose to be the male, the female were suspose to be the victim. ENXj male are Extrovert, They are Te/Fe dominant, Fe/Te ROLE trying to do both at once. they are more engaged in the exterior world. what I think is interesting is that they also have Se hidden agenda, which complicates things worse. On the other hand, ISXj female are introvert but they easily deal with things implusively which leaves no doubting. I think that is refreshing. If you are an EnXj male or IsXj female, please comment on what makes this couple ticks.