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    IEI: it's going to be warm tomorrow. wanna go for a motorcycle ride?
    SLE: ok. I'll try to make this happen, let's plan on it. (reschedules his entire day, charges the battery, gets the tires filled, etc)

    Later, during ride:

    SLE: I really appreciate how you got me out here today--it's an amazing day.
    IEI: Well I knew it was going to be warm so I thought it was worth a try. you're the one who actually made it happen.

    Amusing how the SLE thinks it's the IEI who made it happen and the IEI thinks it's the SLE who made it happen (it was, of course, the SLE who DID make it happen)
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    IEI: it's going to be warm tomorrow. wanna go for a motorcycle ride?
    SLE: ok. I'll try to make this happen, let's plan on it. (reschedules his entire day, charges the battery, gets the tires filled, etc)

    Later, during ride:

    SLE: I really appreciate how you got me out here today--it's an amazing day.
    IEI: Well I knew it was going to be warm so I thought it was worth a try. you're the one who actually made it happen.

    Amusing how the SLE thinks it's the IEI who made it happen and the IEI thinks it's the SLE who made it happen (it was, of course, the SLE who DID make it happen)
    It can't happen without the idea.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilliand View Post
    It can't happen without the idea.
    I guess, but the idea is the EASY part!
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    I guess, but the idea is the EASY part!
    Haha, yes, for US it is.


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    that's cute!
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    I guess, but the idea is the EASY part!
    For me, the doing is the EASY part!
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    For me, the doing is the EASY part!
    I love SLEs!!
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    Here's another Se appreciation:

    SLE and IEI are driving for hours. It's lunchtime but neither really knows what the exact time is. SLE stops when he feels hungry without even consulting the IEI (which is exactly what the IEI wants so she doesn't have to deal with the decision-making). He stops wherever he wants, says he's going to get a couple types of sandwiches and she can choose from what he brings out (Hooray! that way the IEI doesn't have to face the millions of choices from the menu). She waits outside for him, enjoying the breeze. He returns, food in hand and she decides which sandwich she wants. PERFECT!!!! (he even throws in a donut that they can split)
    IEI-Fe 4w3

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    wait, why the sad face??
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    ALLIE WANTZ DUAL
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    Sorry. It sounds like Stockholm Syndrome to me, so I really don't understand the appeal. Oh well. That's why SLEs aren't my duals. Hah.

    Eh, I shouldn't even be posting in here. I always ruin and/or incite arguments in Beta threads. Agh.
    LOL! no argument, I just wondered
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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    Find me one.
    Expat or Kamajama - take your pick.
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Expat or Kamajama - take your pick.
    lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    IEI: it's going to be warm tomorrow. wanna go for a motorcycle ride?
    SLE: ok. I'll try to make this happen, let's plan on it. (reschedules his entire day, charges the battery, gets the tires filled, etc)

    Later, during ride:

    SLE: I really appreciate how you got me out here today--it's an amazing day.
    IEI: Well I knew it was going to be warm so I thought it was worth a try. you're the one who actually made it happen.

    Amusing how the SLE thinks it's the IEI who made it happen and the IEI thinks it's the SLE who made it happen (it was, of course, the SLE who DID make it happen)
    Um...wow k...so like this happen about a week before shit hit the fan with my IEI....

    In the begining...

    Me: reluctant to open up, show emotion, was compartmentalizing relationships, was not always my true self, etc
    IEI: Forced me to "be myself" and to "open up" etc. etc.

    About a couple months later (a week ago this convo took place

    Me: "I just want to thank you for, esentially forcing me to be myself, to open up, and for opening my eyes a little bit more"
    IEI: "Well, I'm not trying to run your life or tell you what to do, but I guess a little buit of advice, guidance and suggestions, at the end of it all, you're the one that made the change, you're the one who did what needed to be done and made the change. It's all you"
    Yesterday I knew nothing, today I know that.

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    so how did the IEI "force" you to open up and be yourself? (if you don't mind sharing)
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    so how did the IEI "force" you to open up and be yourself? (if you don't mind sharing)
    By constantly complaining that I don't open up. To me, to my friends, and my family lol. And, because I like him I tried my best to do so, to show him that I'm capable of it. BUT, that's only because I really like and care about him.
    Yesterday I knew nothing, today I know that.

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    "constantly complaining" eh? Funny! When I'm with my SLE friend I find that he opens up on his own. but that's probably because he's been married to an IEI for 17 years.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    "constantly complaining" eh? Funny! When I'm with my SLE friend I find that he opens up on his own. but that's probably because he's been married to an IEI for 17 years.
    It's not that I dont want to open up...it's just that it's hard for me...but over time with him, it's something that I'm getting use to with him. It becomes easier as time goes on.
    Yesterday I knew nothing, today I know that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    "constantly complaining" eh? Funny! When I'm with my SLE friend I find that he opens up on his own. but that's probably because he's been married to an IEI for 17 years.
    It's not that I dont want to open up...it's just that it's hard for me...but over time with him, it's something that I'm getting use to with him. It becomes easier as time goes on.

    But none the less, even when I do open up, according to him it's still not enough. He recognizes that I do open up, he says it himself, however, he still mentions to others that i don't from time to time.
    Yesterday I knew nothing, today I know that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ESTP View Post
    It's not that I dont want to open up...it's just that it's hard for me...but over time with him, it's something that I'm getting use to with him. It becomes easier as time goes on.

    But none the less, even when I do open up, according to him it's still not enough. He recognizes that I do open up, he says it himself, however, he still mentions to others that i don't from time to time.
    WELL HE MUST NOT BE VERY GOOD AT OPENING YOU.

    I wouldn't worry. But i t's kind of rude for him to mention it to other people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    IEI: it's going to be warm tomorrow. wanna go for a motorcycle ride?
    SLE: ok. I'll try to make this happen, let's plan on it. (reschedules his entire day, charges the battery, gets the tires filled, etc)

    Later, during ride:

    SLE: I really appreciate how you got me out here today--it's an amazing day.
    IEI: Well I knew it was going to be warm so I thought it was worth a try. you're the one who actually made it happen.

    Amusing how the SLE thinks it's the IEI who made it happen and the IEI thinks it's the SLE who made it happen (it was, of course, the SLE who DID make it happen)
    this is cute!
    Hi! I'm an ENFP. :-)

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