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    "Relations of Benefit may appear even and conflict free. Usually it is the Benefactor who initiates the contact. Partners can even feel some kind of spiritual connection between them. However, relations last only as long as the Benefactor has something to give and the Beneficiary has need of it. If this major condition is no longer fulfilled, relations enter quite an unpleasant stage of their development. The Beneficiary may begin ignoring the Benefactor completely or they may start to accentuate too many of the Benefactors inability, provoking arguments and quarrels."

    HI, does anyone feel some sort of hidden connection with their benefit partner?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
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    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

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    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    I found this to be pretty accurate:
    “Asymmetric relationship. One partner (the beneficiary*) finds he is constantly trying to solve the other person's (the benefactor's) problems and is overly emotionally involved in the other partner's life — always waiting for a reward from the benefactor. The benefactor, on the other hand, is largely unaware of this and wonders why the beneficiary is so dependent and so sensitive to the things he (the benefactor) says.”

    Relations of benefit are interesting, but kind of exhausting if you're the benefactor. And yes Numbers, I do think there is some sort of connection that can make it worthwhile. In the end it just comes down to the individuals involved.



    *Semantics: Relations of Request (+/-) = Relations of benefit. I had to change transmitter to benefactor and recipient to beneficiary, but it's essentially the same thing (for those who didn't already know).
    ALLIE, I totally agree with that, I think almost ALL ENTP and ESFp I have gotten close with experienced this, and I felt a deep SENSE of connection between those two types, Asumming that ENTP has TI to provide to me and that I have NI to keep the relationship going with the ESFp.
    (D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)

    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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