lol im kidding. I do really like INFjs (in theory). The last thing INFj's deserve is a sad thread about them.
But im making one about a couple of INFj's in my life that upset me. The first is my friend who isn't coming out tonight and never comes out. More importantly though is my ESTj friends girlfriend. Her and i have never really got on that well. I believe it could be a subtype difference but im not sure. It seems like she is jealous of my friendship with her boyfriend as we are very close. Ive known this guy since i was 6 years old. She gets really annoyed when we want to play NHL or FIFA on his PS3 as she thinks games are rediculous.
My friend mentioned recently that she is needy. He is right. She is very needy. I think he paritally likes it because its flattering. It annoys me though. She will get more than upset if he doesn't have dinner with her or spend time with her. She basically has the attitude "well if you aren't here what do i do????". My answer to that (in my mind) is get a life. She has no hobbies, her only hobby is her boyfriend. She barely sees her other friends. Every now and then shes cheerful and my mate does really love her, but god damn... She loves her ENFp friend, but i think shes a different subtype to me. I feel sorry for this ENFp because shes a little on the dumb side (or appears to be to others). She asked if opium smells like the perfume called opium the other day and everyone at the table was like hmm no i dont think so.
Anyway theres nothing to be said, i just wish she wasn't so emotional and serious. I want to hook him up with another one maybe a bit like Ritella? So we can all have fun