It's my SLE fiance's bday today, and I want to do something special, but don’t know wut. As we’re eachother super-ego’s, I fear things I think he may appreciate, he really may not.
So I wanted to get an idea from anyone here who can help
On my bday, he told me he’d take me anywhere I wanted. I really had wanted him to plan something. Now, on his, I want so badly to show him I care and plan something fun, but should I take a hint from him on mine, and just ask him what he wants to do and wing it? That just seems to me to look like I didn’t care enough to plan anything. But how would you interpret it?
In all honesty, I know myself, and I’ll want atleast a back up plan, in case he looks bummed w/ my no plan-ness. What would be an ideal bday?