It was our first date. We were in a bar and my brother popped up and then was about to leave, I might have looked like I was leaving too, but that was not the case.
IEI: Are you going to leave a lady by herself in a bar? *flirtingly*
I was hooked.
It was our first date. We were in a bar and my brother popped up and then was about to leave, I might have looked like I was leaving too, but that was not the case.
IEI: Are you going to leave a lady by herself in a bar? *flirtingly*
I was hooked.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Person A has a tendency to go off on rants about stuff that pisses him off. I used to wonder aboutpolr for him because he is very unapologetically opinionated and doesn't seem to care about how what he says might strike anyone else. Looking at that now, I think that reasoning was off (it actually reminds me of my sister, who is
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Anyway, this struck me as a good example of socionic types/quadras.
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[20:22] <Person A> I'm sorry, it's just that I've been brooding over this all day--- our so-called modern online culture seems to revolve around a sick, diseased PRIDE in being hateful, twisted, and cruel. The few people who really ARE hungering for innocence are a vanishing minority.For every one person who just gets a smile out of whenever Fluttershy squeaks, there's a platoon of them, half who want to
[20:22] <Person A> hear that squeak in an S+M lesbian porno and the other half who want to watch as she's ripped in half by chains.
[20:23] <Person A> And that platoon applauds themselves on their "hipness"
[20:24] <Person A> You know what? I would give anything for the power to make people feel SHAME.
[20:25] <Person B> Whenever something grows large enough to become the dominant basic theme or mood of a culture, there are those who grow up getting sick of it, and rebel against it as they grow up. Then that counter-culture becomes the dominant culture, and you slowly start to have a counter-counter-culture.
[20:26] <Person B> really? I'd give a lot to be able to make people break into song and dance upon command.
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
I wake up
Me: Fuck.
SEI: what?
Me: I was seeing a dream with hooker being next to me and then it's just you.
SEI: damn
one minute later
Me: Gonna go post something, here's a teddy bear to make up for my abscence
This is a convo dual couple I know had:
SEI: If you had to choose, pot or me?
ILE: That's easy. Pot.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
My husband hates IKEA because he doesn't "want to spend all day wandering through all that shit."
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
Originally Posted by Slacker
And then when you bring the furniture home, you still have to put it together...
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
ESE: "I must have given [your father] a look, because he backed off pretty quickly."
Me: "What?"
ESE: "I was pouring the tea, and he asked, 'Want to know how you could do that faster?'. I must've given him a look, because he backed off."
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
As you can see, not much Likes on these posts. It is due to egocentric interest we have on our type when in interaction with other types. Also, the circumstantial demeanor plays an important role. That is,
I can imagine SLI and SEI talking about a sensory experience but when we are quoting them, the difference between Fe ego and Fe PoLR won't be too visible in text.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
Where is UDP, anyway?
IEI-Fe 4w3
3 yr old SLE (my cousin) talking to her mom "I want you to want to do what I want"
lol so young....
IT SOUNDS FAMILIAR NOW. It's Gilgamesh.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
LII: "I appreciate you too often to mention it every time. I think it'd be easier if I just told you when you look ugly. That way I need to do it so much more rarely."
LIIs – possessing the ability to make even flattery sound like an insult.
"Use every ounce of potential you have, raise revolution against what people expect of you, and tell the world this is not a rehearsal. This is the real me. And listen up, ‘cause it could be the most honest incarnation yet."
Wow, this sounds so much like my LII friend as well.
I guess this could be socionics related.
I was wandering around in Hamburgh with an IEI, drinking beer and looking for some interesting places to go to:
IEI: You know, it's scary how alike you and Aquagraph can look
Me: Huh?
IEI: You have exactly the same look in your eyes. As if you were two little kids lost in the big, wide world and really needed someone to grab your hand so that you don't get too distracted and lost. It always makes me want to give you a hug.
and to my ex-boyfriendWow, this sounds so much like my LII friend as well.LII as well
My ILE daughter complained to me yesterday that she finds talking to people to be frustrating. What one person likes will offend another person, and even one person might be OK with one thing one day and offended by it another day. She has no way of knowing what people want to hear or if something she says will upset someone. She wishes people were "more logical." Her words.
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
Me: I live alone.
LSE friend: yes you're doing the right thing. Living alone is a nice feelings and sometimes comfortable. I like living alone. You choose the right way.
^Anyone need a judging type, you know, just to tell you that you're doing the right thing or not and if it's the right way or not?
Anyone at all? Come on pple!
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
SLI...
IEE. Blah blah blah
SLI. (smiles)
IEE. Blah blah blah
SLI. (smiles)
IEE. Blah blah blah
SLI. (tries to undo IEE's flies)
IEE. Whoa there buddy
SLI. (smiles)
IEE-Ne
Me & Rowdyness (Te-LSE) we were walking home from a party, blind drunk, with Ne-IEE and Te-SLI friends. We were casually discussing the awesomeness of sexual paraphilias and how we should found a punk band that had some retarded, nazi-related name and a picture of frothy piss forming ying/yang as album cover and other stuff like that. There was a little pause in the conversation and I asked rowdy if he had any idea of our friends' types. He said he hadn't thought about it, so I told him and added "so there's one person of each Delta type". His instant reply was, if my drunken memory is to be trusted, something like this:
Him: "Bullshit."
Me: Huh? o_O
Him: We're not boring.
Me: no....?
Him: Look, I don't claim to know much about socionics, but one thing I've learned and it's that Deltas the most boring creatures on earth. And we sure as hell are not boring.
Me: Oh, yeah.. That must be the prudish ones that live in the US. Here it's obviously the other way around, betas are damn lame and we're cool.
Him: Ahh that totally makes sense! Now have some more wine, we need to finish this!
Basically what happens when I have an Si-ego of the opposite sex around.
Me to EIE: You sure get along with him (SLE relative) very well. It's cool.
EIE: Yeah, it is.
Me: He's cooking something on the grill, right?
EIE: Yeah, he is........ I'll go criticize him about it
Me: Lol (and tags along to watch beta-ness)
Bro Talk
Delta Guy: so... [I'll ask them] "hey are you still interested?"
Delta Other Guy: Dude, you're not a whore on the corner
you can be a little more direct than that
you sound like a low confidence hooker
Oh wow.
Hi redbaron. How are you?
Hi! I just looked at your avatar and underneath, it says you're "on a mission" so I guess that's where you are!
IEI-Fe 4w3
sort of a role reversal, but not really if you knew these two.
ESE: Well, it's about time she died already.
LII:... ...that's a Terrible thing to say!
ESE: Well............ I mean....... she just shouldn't make it all about her
LII: *kind of laughing*
I walk in at the start of this conversation and am trying to stop from loling too much.
forum signature by certain ISFj:
"You're half way there from being a vampire. You don't suck blood... YOU JUST SUCK"
this made me lol, because it came off so funny.
Talking about LSEs and ESEs stepping on each others toes regarding Fe v Te valuing
"Yeah, you can tell, LSEs don't really want people to be like that"
- said by an EII
ha
Me: I'm on my period and it hurts (passed out on the couch).
LSE: That's because you're a woman and you're cursed; that's how the story is right?
Me: Whatever
LSE: LOL
SEE: You're not supposed to say "you're cursed"
LSE: I'm a man; what am I supposed to say?
SEE: You're supposed to say "I'm sorry; anything I can do to make you feel better?"
LSE: *says and does nothing*
Me: It's ok, I don't mind it, he was just kidding around.
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I would say "she's going to die in ten minutes". Call the ambulance.
IEEs are proud and stubborn.But, this quote doesn't suggest that the ENFp took the Te suggestion of "how to do it better" from the ISTp.So, the ENFp doesn't follow the Te or ISTp? So, ISTp is useless in his suggestion of Te to an ENFp?
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You know what? You're an individual, and that makes people nervous. And it's gonna keep making people nervous for the rest of your life. - Ole Golly from Harriet, the spy.
@Kim can this thread be stick-ed?
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So this morning I went on a little adventure but was unsuccessful at spotting a rare type who I wanted to chat with. Then, I walked around the block and went to Wendy's where I wanted to grab my morning coffee; standing next to me was the hulk of an LSE waiting for his morning food. I noticed some stuff about him and started a convo for 7 minutes. The rest. opened and we walked in, he let me go first, like a good gentleman and I ordered my coffee. Well, mr observant had been watching my manners and my actions. I was about to leave after fixing my coffee and he had been sitting across the room at this point. He said "what you're going to leave now?" without even looking at me directly. I call that the super peripherally vision of the LSE. I said "unless, of course you would rather me stay and have a conversation with you." He said "sure." I sat across him and we spoke for 4 hours, during our conversations he would stop and estimate how and in what ways I would make a match with him "you would compliment me in that way" "you would fit with me in." I wasn't thinking of compatibility; I was just listening to chatter mouth talk to me about anything that came across his thoughts. Every time I stopped at an idea that was different from his judgement of things he could not incorporate my idea..."I think it's better that two people in a relationship don't have the same interests, exactly, this allows them to do their own thing and not compete," was what I would say and he would, "I think similar interests is important in a relationship." And I would repeat what I said before, adding clarity to my judgement and he still couldn't process it like some body who had learned or made up their mind and couldn't be reprogrammed; well, I didn't make a big deal of it because I just want to be his friend and made that clear at the end of the long convo and he said "does this mean you'll be here tomorrow morning since you wake up early?" I said "I could be." He walked me up to my stop and he turned around and said, "I don't understand how you can be so happy; you're a surprise to me; I've never met someone like you; I wish everyone else was like you."
I thought, up to this point, that I had met LSE who figure things out fast, but this was very fast. I guess I'm having coffee tomorrow morning with my new friend.
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
My IEE friend and her weak and devalued Se:
"for those of you that didn't already know what a genius I am...
I've had my car for about a year now and just figured out I have a 6 CD changer."
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
This exchange upon my discovering that the huge, long loud Fi rant by my SLE-Son's just-now -ex (ExFx) that disturbed our quiet neighborhood late one night last month for well over an hour was in fact over a much less dramatic happening that I'd worried it was:
Me, IEE Mom : "Is that all it was?"
SLE Son (knows no Socionics) : "Yes. She's an illogical person!"
[The angst of his now-ex was upsetting to hear. My SLE son did truly offend her, broke her trust, ending a budding relationship he valued. But I do feel he handled her upset well, staying with her, letting her express everything till she was calm, til they were both talking softly and laughing now and again. I did not hear their words outside because I can't be nosy - except the beginning really screaming ones - but I did catch the change in conversation tone after a time, so I was glad he was kind. Since he can be insensitive to me. And I think he learned a lesson, one he really needed to learn. At least I am praying he did.]
OH I've had moments like that!
I <3 fellow IEEs. Every day is an adventure!
And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow, won't he more surely care for you?- Matthew 6:30
Me: Don't you cook?
LSE: Yes, I cook steak on a grill.
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Ho.ly. Shit. I always knew my boyfriend is my dual: LSE.Me: Don't you cook?
LSE: Yes, I cook steak on a grill.
"[Scapegrace,] I don't know how anyone can stand such a sinister and mean individual as you." - Maritsa Darmandzhyan
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Steak on a grill? LSE confirrrmmmmm!
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